is it fair to buy one child a lovely pressie costing £20+ and buy the other a £2/£3 pants peice of poop?! god it annoys me.
i'm going to toys r us tomoro and spending all their xmas money on just her cos compared to braden she got not very much! feel so sorry that she always gets treated pants by quite a few people!
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awww no who is shwing favourtism hun ? x

Aww that is not fair, surely most people would try and make sure the gifts look about the same for each of them x

Thats not fair at all! Do you think they figure she is too young to know so dont see point in spending or do you think they genuinely favour braden? Maybe they will spend more when she's older.

I may have been guilty in the past of spending more on a toy for a child that understands getting a new toy (eg branded disney toys/cbeebies toys etc are way more expensive for what they are, compared to basic own brand dolls, instruments, cars etc!) but equally I prob make it up by being more inclined to buy clothes for tiny ones... though dita aint actually that teeny anymore

I know how u feel last year my neice got a gorgeous gold bracelet and my callum got a pot of baby buttons from the same person how harsh is that x


Hope you get her something nice xx

Thats awful, is it family?? I have this too with James parents!
James parents buy loads for Chloe (all crap) Hayden got a bag of mega blocks and MY 2 boys age 11 & 6 got a matchbox car each my mum treats Chloe as another grandchild and spends probably as much although she only sees her 2 /3 times a year
We then got invited there yesterday as they knew my 2 boys would be with their dad, they collected Chloe we got there H opened his 1 present we weren't offered a stitch to eat (arrived lunchtime) we were then asked to take Chloe home on our way home we said no - you collected her, you return her. Felt bad but were in my dads car as ours died and it's not on our way home

Next year I have suggested to James they come to us, at least H will be able to play with toys