Im so annoyed!

James asked me an hour ago if he could ask his brother and his wife over on New Years Eve. Our SIL is pregnant, so I thought it would be nice so we can have a chilled out night with not too much drinking, etc. (I cant be dealing with a heavy night with Lily waking every 3 hours).

So... he then goes and invites some more friends without telling/asking me! Im so livid!

I just want to chill out without having to entertain people. I dont mean to sound miserable as its NYE, but I look after Lily 100% on my own (James helps with Aimee, but doesnt seem to want to help with Lily) and im shattered.

tell him to eff off out if he must have a major p*ss up!

I dont think he is bothered about the drinking, he just wants people here.

But, he forgets that when his head hits the pillow, he is done for the night. I am stuck having to do the night feeds.

I have no problem doing all of the feeds, etc. normally, but it gets on my nerves that I am now going to be stuck entertaining people until some silly hour in the middle of the night and then still do the feeds.

There will be no point in asking him to help as he will be (in my opinion) too drunk to let him anywhere near Lily.

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I would tell him to uninvite them pretty quick, what on earth is he thinking of??

i'd make him uninvite them too! They just don't think men do they! X

bloody men!! this is the sort of thing my oh wud do!! he has invited ppl to our house for hogmany aswell which like u i dont mind, but when i dont drink very much he will ask why im not drinking! em maybe cos im the one that gets up with evan!!

ooooh thats naughty, I would be bloody fuming too Just tell him straight that you want a quiet night with just brother and SIL x

i would put your foot down Laura, you don't want a houseful with a young baby in the house.

I'd tell him to uninvite them too......seriously xxx

He has said he is going to sort it out and has said he is sorry. Men just dont think!

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Glad hes gonna sort it out x
Not fair on you x

glad he's going to sort it hun, thats the last thing you want with a baby in the house x

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