Grrrrr!!! Asked OH if I could borrow his phone to go on the net earlier as were at my dads so he said yes and then said to me oh if there's anything dodgy on it (meaning porn) the lads have been messing with my phone at work!! Ok, so after about half an hour later he admits it was him!

Now this sort of stuff doesn't usually bother me, but we haven't had sex since I fell pregnant and the fact he feels he needs to get his sexual desires fulfilled from some sleazy websites has quite annoyed me, but not so much that...when has he found the time to do that and also why lie about it??

F'ing twat!!!!!!!!!!

What a wally, men should never lie, it always back fires!

Have you not had sex through your choice or his?

I don't see the problem with porn? It's not as if hes going to run off with a video and tbf if he hasn't had sex in 5 months he's going to be a bit frustrated

ALthough he is a complete arse for lying bout it!

Yep a twat!

But don't get too stressed about it it's just what some blokes do and having a wank and having sex with their ohs are two different things. They don't need to be nice to porno stars and only have to think about their own end (literaly).

Yes of course give him a hard time if you want but try not to let it upset you.

Hope you're ok xxx

It's not the fact he has been looking at it that has hacked me off it's the fact that he felt the need to lie about it! Why not just tell me the truth! I can't even talk to him about it until we get home tomorrow night.

Oh and it was a joint decision, or so I thought! Obviously not on his part though!

i thin men get slightly red faced about admitting to having a wank

you shouldnt stress to much hun ,, x

I wouldn't worry, he probably lied in a panic...spoke before thinking!

Can't really expect him to go the whole pregnancy with no 'stimulation' at all - he's bound to need something to keep him sane!

I agree with Lisa that he probably lied in a quick panic -men are stupid! end of!

I also agree with the point about going without stimulation for 9 months (probably more) but more to the point - how do YOU cope without it? I have never been so horny as when I was pg - I was like a woman possesed

xx

lol Debs! We only did it til I was about 25 weeks, it was around xmas time..I couldn't do it after then cos of SPD!

I know for a fact Dan watched porn in the dry period!

I use to be pissed at oh for watching porn, now i watch it with him lol!

Its not good that he lied, if he wants sex he should speak with you about his needs!

Debs wrote:

I have never been so horny as when I was pg - I was like a woman possesed

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couldnt agree more debs, pregnancy turned me into a sex pest lol

I don't know, it's just something that hasn't seemed to bother me lol...although had he asked then I'm sure I could have fulfilled his needs for him.

LMAO @ dry spell! it was me that was watching the porn and had the dry spell! OH wouldn't come near me once my bump started to do that weird lumpy wobbly thing when baby kicked which left me VERY frustrated!!

xx

Im also in the unbothered byporn camp, OH and i have watched it together a few times though we tend to get the giggles.

He shudnt have lied Siob and when you get home its probably worth talking to him about it but i wouldnt get too mad at him. I reckon it was a panic lie too, you picked up his phone and he didnt think to be honest and ust blurted summat out. Hes bound to be feeling a bit frustrated and maybe felt he couldnt approach you about it, men can be a bit funny when their wimmen are up the duffers. First time round neil was a bit unsure and we didnt do it that much, this time hes worked out its not going to cause any probs other than blue balls for him and has been pestering me as much as usual, its just me thats too achy to be bothered very often. Ive actually told Neil on many occasions to feel free to take matters into his own hands so to speak

Id just say you understand the porn but the lying upset you so if hes gonna do summat like that to be upfront or even consider you two having some you time. If its going th whole hog thats bothering him or you then sex isnt all about uppy downy bumpy rumpy and theres plenty of ways to...cheer each other up.

Chin up chicken xxx

marc looks at porn and to be honest it really dosnt bother me in the slghtest he has it on the computer, his phone and dvds I think its natural for men to do it and saves me a job lol

but when i was pregnant it bothered the hell out of me because i felt fat, bloated and ugly xxx

hugs hun you all you have to remember is they are glorified prostitutes get paid for shagging people

Im abit like you if oh wants to watch porn then thats fine but lying about it whats the point.
Only thing i would say was if it was infront of your dad or family i can understand why he was lying because its not something you share with ur ohs family x
Id have a word bout the lying tho x

he probably lied because he's been caught out , mine did the same a few years back when i caught him, its no reflection on you at all, its just men have sex on the brain!

That's all it was that bothered me the fact he lied and not the looking at it. Ahhh well I'm feeling a bit better this morning and let's just say hd knows I'm pi$$ed off with him XX

Aw hun, Adam would rather lie too, he gets very embarrassed about him, i had to tell him last week, look i dont mind you knocking one out but can you dispose of the evidence better please.

to which he got all defensive and embarrassed.

so i, tell him its the lies that upset you, but be prepared that he aint ever gonna say i am off to release some tension lol!
you could just tell him, you will do it for him haha!

Lilly's dad done that to me while i was pregnant worst thing.. i was lying in bed next to him (he pretended he was playing a game) twat

That's the thing Jo if he had asked I would have quite happily done it for him lol!!

i wish my guy would bugger off and watch some porn and knock one out !!!!

siobgan y did u mutually agree to no sex. aint u going stir crazy ur self lol!! around ur time now, i coulndt get enough hehe X

Adam would never ask either tho shev, strange creatures!

Glad you feel better!

Men are stupid twits who have no idea that the small words that come out of their mouth have such a big impact!

Just remember yours isn't a badun just cos he lied in the heat of the moment - they all do it sooner or later cos they never think first!