Thanks ladies, we had a chat earlier and basically as most of you know he is due to go to Afghanistan for 4 months in August, he said he's scared about leaving us for 4 months and also worried about how LO will be with him when he gets back (she will be 8 months by then). He said he's sorry for acting the way he has been and said if I feel that strongly about it then he will stop first responding (which isn't what I want).
He also brought me Breakfast in Bed and is currently upstairs doing housework, whilst I do sweet FA lol! xx