Iv spent the last 3 nights on the sofa due to the lurgy taking over my house. Im on the sofa again tonight because Stuart is a fecking twat! I wish he would go home to his mum. This is why we cant live together. Grrrrrr! Im honestly 1 more night from ending it.

He has been a total knob to me all day. He was nice this morning & took Caitlin into town so I could sleep. He came home with wii fit for me (which I was grateful & happy about) & mario kart for himself. He spent all his xmas £ on games for us to play together, how lovely... in theory

Literally all evening he has snapped at me, told me im talking down to him, to stop treating him like he's thick, snatched things off me, huffed, stopped talking to me for up to 20min at a time if I interrupt him to say I know what he was going to say, called me rude.....

Honestly he has been horrible. He went off to bed & I went in and told him that I wouldnt be joining him yet again tonight as I was not going to be made to feel that I couldnt answer him back without being 'rude'. I can speak out in my own home & just because I disagree/interrupt doesnt mean I have to live in fear of being put in the doghouse. Im not going to spend the next 10 yrs pussy footing round him masaging his ego that he knows more than me if he clearly doesnt!

He back tracked a bit & said I should just come to bed when I want, he isnt fighting with me & is sorry I feel that he is. Urgh, he is an obnoxious twonk at times. It was only last thur my mil & sil (who I aint exactly best mates with) had a yap at me about how rude/like his dad he is and said they didnt know how I put up with him. Im starting to know what they meant... as much as it pains me to admit it!

The only positive I can spin on this is he appears to have quit smoking since he was sick & I know this is prob making him irritable. Im so close to stickig one in his gob & lighting it!!! Mario prob knows how I feel! Im a hypcrite though as im still smoking, but jesus its no excuse to talk to me/treat me like utter poop.... talking to me when he feels like it! twat twat twat!!! Sorry, il prob feel better 2moro!!!

Hi snoops

are you feeling any better?

I'd sulk for a while today in hope that he realises what a twat he is and how lucky he is to have you. Have you considered making him sleep on the sofa and only allowing him in bed if he behaves!

Oh no snoops. If he is nocotine deprived he aint gonna apologise either. He will stay mardy. You have my sympathy, last time neil tried to quit without help i threatened to leave him and the time before that his mu BEGGED hi to smoke after 10 days. The tabs hes on this tie are the first thing thats ever worked.

I do hope for your sake hes in a better mood today xxx

He's only just got up and by the sounds of it his mood hasnt improved much. The fact im tired and admittedly a grumpy moan when iv had no sleep isnt going to mix well today.