find themselves just talking about baby stuff and day to day boring stuff on these forums now because they dont trust people enough for things to stay on the forums?
I used to talk about anything on the other site but since it changed near the end and some horrible people came about and everybody was b*tching over fb i find myself extremely boring lol.
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i think i just babble shite most of the time

Umm i just say what i want too really, im not worried about anyone finding me or any bitchy replies i dont really think its like that on here?

ah im not worried about people finding me that i know or bitchy replies - just about people quoting what i say onto facebook, if i want to moan about the oh, or family etc i never do.
Theres deff people on here i know would do it so i just avoid the situation - but it deff makes my posts extremely boring lol
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my life's pretty damn boring anyway !

lol, mine isn't particularly exciting but i don't half like a good ol' b*tch sometimes! lol
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Niccsy wrote:

lol, mine isn't particularly exciting but i don't half like a good ol' b*tch sometimes! lol
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don't we all, it's therapy!

Ah right i get ya, well touch wood no one has ever even so much as mentioned BANDA on my Fb let alone anything about my post....but hey im very boring lol!

can u not avoid the people on facebook? i know 1 who u have who i dont really like either shes rather opinionated if u ask me and is a bit nosey

I just say what I want. If its something I wouldnt want people stumbling over I put it in private lounge.

Like terri no one has mentioned BANDA on my FB. I dont post anything related to here so there is no need for anything to be said about it. I dnt mind ppl from here replying to my posts (my OH, mum and a few friends know I use forums anyway and have guessed a few times that ppl must be from my 'babyworld'.)

Id be quick to block someone if they got cheeky on my FB. Id be shocked if someone stooped so low as to directly quote from here on to FB, there's no need for that. I dont think people on here would do that but!

I am just turning into a complete baby bore full stop! It's either that or my wedding at the moment because those two areas seem to be consuming my life right now so appologies to anybody who is bored

If I did have anything remotely interesting to say I would probably make use of the private lounge or even the anon one but until that day I will continue to fill my fb with baby/wedding crap

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i have deleted a few people for causing un-necessary drama, i'm all for an easy life i feel a bit uneasy if anyone mentions banda though,its my haven of being a proud baby bore.

pinkyd wrote:

i have deleted a few people for causing un-necessary drama, i'm all for an easy life i feel a bit uneasy if anyone mentions banda though,its my haven of being a proud baby bore.

me too not with me though, i dont like seeing statuses where there swearing all the time or slaging each other off all the time (was nobody on here) my friends dont even know the name of this site lol if i talk about the site i call it the baby site, i dont want every1 knowing we r trying to concieve so thats why i like to talk about it on here ive told 1 person i know, who i know i can trust and i like to have a moan on here and dont want people telling other people wot ive been saying, which i dont know any1 on here personally anyway so it doesnt really matter wot i say on here, but if some1 did say something on my fb that i put on here, id delete it and them and then theyd get blocked, i think wot people say on here should stay on here, i dont think any1 in my friends from here would say anything anyway has i only really get odd comments on my statuses, the 1 i dont like has been blocked

I think you do have to carefull about what you say when you put it in writing as it come back and bite you on the bum.

I wouldn't say anything about anyoen that I wouldn't say to their face so it doesn't bother me

Jade wrote:

I wouldn't say anything about anyoen that I wouldn't say to their face so it doesn't bother me

I always call people behind their backs, I find it much safer as I'd probably get punched if I said it their face!

ooo jayne i'm intrigured, who may that be?! lol

its not that i wanna *^$% people off its just i want to moan about stupid things like my oh doing something annoying, or either of our family's peeing me off etc things that i know if i said to their face or they found out would cause unneccessary tension for weeks, cos half the time i know its stupid myself but it just feels better to have a good moan and people understand why you are moaning lol!
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BabyMilly wrote:

I always call people behind their backs, I find it much safer as I'd probably get punched if I said it their face!

pmsl Penny

nobody has every mentioned banda on my facebook and i wouldnt mention it either. gav knows i go on banda but he has no idea wat that meanss really - he knows its a baby site. i never mention it to my mates as theyd prob think it was weird. its my safe little haven and i trust most people on here to keep private things private.x

I do moan about my OH on here, but I normally sit there telling him that I am moaning about him, he just doesn't know what the site is called. I do say it all (and a whole lot more, lol) to his face too.

I am glad we have the private lounge now as it does make life easier.

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Laura wrote:

I do moan about my OH on here, but I normally sit there telling him that I am moaning about him, he just doesn't know what the site is called. I do say it all (and a whole lot more, lol) to his face too.

I am glad we have the private lounge now as it does make life easier.

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Ha Stuart knows I moan about him too! I dont think he knows what this site is called but as he uses my laptop it wouldnt be hard for him to figure it out through serach history. Iv told him before things iv moaned about and he has asked what ppl have said. I also tell him things about your OHs and sometimes he feels quite smug that 'he would never do that!' and then I remind him of something dafter/more upsetting to me that he has done!

I love the private lounge (though actually as it logs me in automatically if Stu went all inspector cluedo he could prob read it), and quite like hearing that im not the only one who's OH is a twit at times or who's family isnt rosey!

i try not to say too much about me and myself cos i don't like the thought of someone seeing it and knowing it's me (though my daughter's name would give me away ) I don't use my OH's name but if you have me on facebook you'd know it.
i post all my nonsense on facebook cos at least i have controlover who sees it!

I know what u mean nut i would post in private personal things x
Oh knws i come on here and biatch about him he dont care xx

Please see my disclaimer below for my views on this subject

Gill, I admire you and your diclaimer totally. But if I *^$% someone off (always my sil) her feelings mean f all to me but it would upset other peeps like my oh. So I do like a good old biatch on here but wouldn't like anyone else to see. My sil does know I can't stand her so I'm not false and I'm never two faced I just like my petty bitching to be kept private.

My mum always said if you haven't got anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all! I try to do this, but do struggle...alot!