Neils having the snip this year as im not doing this again! Anyway a cpl of ppl have suggested to me i get sterilised when i have my sec but ive heard cos of the hormones theres a higher chance it can fail. If i had it done i wud still want neil 'done'. Think it wud be overkill to take the sterilisation since they are diggng about in there anyway then have neil neutered too? I so dont want any kind of mistake or accident after last time and this times pregnancies. Or am i just being paranid lol

not that i'm suggesting you might change your mind but i don't think you should be so hasty as to get it done then. I'd just get Neil fixed!

I would jut get Neil fixed first then if you still feel like you want to be extra sure have the sterilisation done.

My mum had it done after she had my sister (3rd chid) but if Neils willing then let him

Im getting way ahead of meself i know really im just freaked about the thought of his snip failing and something happening wonder if need to make doubly sure

mmmmm difficult one. If it is a straight forward procedure, personally i would have it done while the sun roof is open. At least you wont have to go back to hospital, have anaesthetic and be opened up again. Get Neil neutered of course though x

Hmmm I'm always very wary of anything permenant, be it a marker pen or contraception. If I were in your situation I'd definitely be asking Neil to have the snip and then use one of the more long term contraceptives myself such as the injection, implant or coil. At the moment you're not loving the toll pregnancy is taking on your body and health but there are a ton of emotions still to come after birth. Would you really like to add the emotion of a sterilisation on top of that? x

Hun I am of the opinion that us women have gone through enough messing 'down there' recently - let him have a turn!

Seriously though - please don't talk about vesectomy's failing can they not do some sort of check for swimmers after its healed? OMG I never thought of it failing! eeek!

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Lol dont freak debs, im being paranoid right now

Me too hun - that's the problem! I am completely paranoid about getting pg again. Don't get me wrong - I adore my children, they are my life. BUT!!! ( ) I always said I wanted two - I was blessed with two and now I'm done! The thought of doing another pg sends chills up my spine

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