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Clare
Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : UK Posts : 3503
About Me! My Name: Clare Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 5:31 am | |
| hi everyone, well i've been feeling better so thoguht i'd go back to work and see how i went i have this week and next then i'm off for a week and i also have a consultant appt next thurs and wanted to know if i could cope with work so if needed could get sick note from him, as my doc is useless. anyway i caused a shock in the office they were not expecting me back AT ALL, but i explained that i felt ok and that i desperatley wanted to close my cases properly and say goodbye to my kids, especially as some of them i've been there social worker for 3 years, i shouldnt just disappear thats what others do, my new manager acepts this. so i'm being told by colleagues how well i'm looking etc when one cow bag says "bloody hell your bump is huge i wasnt that big when i was 9 months and you got ages yet" this was then repeated by her minions about how big my bump was. i'm now cradeling my bump saying i know i'm big but i'm happy with it and crikey he/she is active, as i say this they walk away. i was so upset that they could say such a thing, but i held it together, refused to think about it till on way home,i've had a cry and russ as told me that they idiots i know my bump is big but mw not worried about it and i'm going to have a big baby, russ is 6ft 4 and solid built and i'm no lean bean. but why are people so cruel, they all know at work, thanks to others that i've struggled to get pg and that i'm so loving being pg, they seem to want to make me sad, they seem to get a kick out of it, sorry for moaning but i know that you guys will listen, thanks xx |
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Mummy2aMiracle
Age : 42 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : UK Posts : 1241
About Me! My Name: Dilly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 5:36 am | |
| I saw your FB post huni some people really need to put their brains in gear before their mouths. Every pregnancy is different and everybody carries differently. I think all expectant mums look beautiful big or tiny, they're creating this amazing little miracle (think they may be a bit jealous?) Dills xxxxxxxxx |
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beccaplus1
Age : 38 Join date : 2010-09-12 Location : London Posts : 106
About Me! My Name: Status: Number of Children:
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 5:53 am | |
| When I was pregnant I use to say to my OH 'why do people feel it is ok to say omg your huge\tiny' you wouldn't walk up to someone and say omg your so fat/thin so why is it ok when your pregnant. Inuse to get so upset when everyone said I was small. Every bump is beautiful big or small xx |
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LisaAdmin
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : Shropshire Posts : 8964
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 6:03 am | |
| What horrible cow bags!
How dare they say that - as if there is something wrong with you for having a big bump - bumps come in sorts of sizes just like the babies that live in them!
If I were you I'd take pleasure in the fact they they are clearly thick is shit and can't help being so stupid! |
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jenshayne
Age : 54 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Canuckville Posts : 3290
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 6:09 am | |
| Aww Clare. Don't let those toads make you feel anything but excited and elated about the fact you are having a gorgeous baby! I can well believe that you are anything infact gorgeous!!!! Hugs hun! xxx
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XLeanneX
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-09-07 Location : Essex England Posts : 791
About Me! My Name: is Leanne Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 6:21 am | |
| Why do people think they have the right to say that sort of thing just because a woman is pregnant! Take no notice hun, see it as the bump thats protecting your lovely baby. |
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Laura
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Northampton Posts : 6084
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 6:32 am | |
| Try not to take it personally hunni. I dont know this woman, but when I was pregnant people used to always tell me how huge my bump was (it was huge!) and couldnt help themselves but comment on it. They are probably just jealous x |
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*Meg*
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : South Wales Posts : 5152
About Me! My Name: Leah Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 7:03 am | |
| stupid women !! dont let it get to you xxx |
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Clare
Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : UK Posts : 3503
About Me! My Name: Clare Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 7:29 am | |
| thanks ladies, russ has come in and took me out for dinner, to show me and my bump off lol and i had choc icecream it definityl hit the spot.
i'm going to ignore her and keep out of her way from now on, i have 36 working days left till its over and then the real excitement begins lol
but thanks for the comments and support, its amazing how reading your not alone helps sometimes xxx |
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J1
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : England Posts : 2346
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 7:37 am | |
| what a biatch!!!
glad russ have cheered you up, you could always punch her and blame pregnancy hormones haha!
i had it all through my 2nd and its damn insensitive as well as annoying¬ |
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pinkyd
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : durham Posts : 3931
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 8:03 am | |
| i think sometimes people dont realise they're offending you, the amount of times i had comments like are you carrying twins? as if you wouldnt be upset. im sure you look beautiful hun xx |
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emmaXx
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : southampton Posts : 1280
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 10:02 am | |
| aww how insensitive.i understand how u feel i had amahoosive bump and people felt the need to touch and rub and comment on how many where in there and when i said one they looked confused.. a bum is abump big or smal enjoy it x |
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Mario
Join date : 2010-08-16 Posts : 6252
| Subject: Re: i'm so upset Fri Feb 11, 2011 7:22 pm | |
| I dont think ppl mean to be insenstive when they comment on bump size hon, ive never let it worry me, ive been told i look small for 8 months and then also been told i look fit to bust, figure that one out! Put a pic up in bumpies for us so you can compare with us current fatties, you will see there really are lots of diff shapes and sizes in there xxx |
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