kids and men !!!

yes my man does the dishes cooks the tea half the week ,, will square up the living room and maybe hoover the laminate
BUT

why cant none of them fuking pick up afterthemselves ! be it a cup or wrapper or a toy or a pair of slippers or trainers or jacket ! why cant they put washing away without my ordering it to be done ! ,,, why cant they see the stairs need hoovered or the tv is dusty or the kitchen cupboard door has a drip of something down it ! why dont they see the bath , toilet or sink require a clean ? its not as if i have a shortage of cleaning materials ! why does washing thats left on the bed to be put away end up on the floor !
do they not see they have left the milk partially open laying down in the fridge no they just put something on top of the spill !
DO THEY THINK THERE ACTUALLY ARE CLEANING FAIRIES !!!!!!!
i know the kids are just kids and he works 30 hours a week and im a SAHM but i am a mum and a partner not a fuking skivvy and slave !!!!!!!!!!!!
see when he gets in and i blow at him ill get the fine you go out and work ,, im ready for him ! ,,, his father works prob 50 hours a week but ive seen him come home and do jobs so my OH best not try and say he cant do it !
im so fuked off ,, and the blasted dog that bit the son ,,,, has chewed near every dummy in house 3 house phones in past week , several books an ethernet cable and today the wireless sensor for wii ! ,,,i am dreading going upstairs now to see kids room and the bathroom and bedroom as OH was in both before he left for work !

argh sorry guys just needed a major rant ,,, the fingers going at speed took away the urge to scream a little

I think you need to make up a rota of some sort, I'm not sure how old the older two children are, but they sound old enough to pick up after themselves and doing a couple of chores a week - and Danielle doesn't really have an excuse either I'd get her doing the dishes and some ironing LOL xx

LMAO! Sorry hun..I'm laughing with you not at you. We have the same thing happening over here! Noone can be bothered to pick up anything they've dropped..and will literally step over it like it's not even there! Hugs hun! xxxx

Stuart reckons he does the lions share of chores here PAH!!!! Men are all the frickin same, he cooks 4-5 nights a week, loads dishwasher after, takes a bag of rubbish out and hoovers once a week - there you go thats the house sorted!

Washing he never does so doesnt understand how time consuming that is, the bathroom I swear he reckons must clean itself while he showers... I dont think he see's dust at all, wouldnt know where to start when clearing out a toybox/caitys clothes...

*sigh* no advice hun, I moan, yap, have thrown a mountain of clean folded clothes at him and round kitchen like a looper (That actually did result in him folding them back up and putting them in drawers - all be it the wrong fecking one's so I had to sort them again )
He doesnt even to blokey things either, the garden covered in leaves, odd jobs that could be done.... nope he spends his evening in front of telly/having a nap.

Have a breakdown, scream & cry at them and see if that changes things even for a cpl of days. Hugs xxx

Have a breakdown, scream & cry at them and see if that changes things even for a cpl of days. Hugs xxx
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LOL! I played the pyscho breakdown card one too many times..now they just step over me too along with the litter on the floor!

I am sure this is how my OH feels about me

We both work 40 hours a week, he does all the cooking, all the cleaning and 90% of the dog walking.

I do washing, ironing, child care and anything that involves poo