Well he's been to view an appartment and said he'd take it. They gave him a good discount because he's able to move in so soon. So it looks like as of Saturday I'll be on my own, permenantly.

Feels so strange and it certainly hasn't sunk in yet, but at least I'll be able to grieve and then begin to move on as a single woman

Aw hun, I'm so sorry. Deep down I was hoping he'd realise what a complete idiot he's been

xxx

Hope your ok hun xxxxxxx

Susan,Libby+1 wrote:

Aw hun, I'm so sorry. Deep down I was hoping he'd realise what a complete idiot he's been

xxx

You weren't the only one Suse. Nope it's definitely happening, so I've got to make the most of it. No point sinking into a hole as it'll only make it worse and then effect Amelia x

ahhhh lisa...hope you're ok! with any luck he'll realise what he's losing and have a change of heart

Well Im glad he has pulled his finger out and done it!

Is it near by?

like susan i had hoped he would realise he was making a mistake

at least come saturday you will be able to try and move on xx x x

Yeah it's a lovely duplex appartment in the middle of town. Got a nice big bedroom for Amelia and 2 bathrooms. Jammy sod!

im so sorry hun, but like u say its what u need to be able to move on and help u get on with things, and u never know maybe without u there he might realise what a fool he has been because so far with u still living together he hasnt had a chance to see what its goin to be like completely without u!!

u know we are all here if u need a chat and virtual hug anytime x

I'm sorry Hun, maybe this is what is needed for him to realise what he's loosing!
I hope you are ok xx

awww it will be strange for a little while but just think you get the bed to yourself, no picking up dirty socks and cleaning up after him. you can make all the mess in the world and not feel guilty stay strong, you will get through it xx

Aww hun just wanted to give you hugs

aww hun im with the others i thought all along that until he actually lives as a single guy where he has to do his own washing, ironing, cooking, and not seeing you and Amelia everyday he might soon realise what a prize plank he has been and how lucky he is/was to have you both in his life because no matter what he will never find another person like you xxx

aw hun. So glad he's finally pulled his finger out. From what i read on your other post he was makin things awkward. At least the atmosphere for amelia will be so much better. You will be ok. You're a fab mummy and you don't need him. Hope you're ok x

LisaGandAmelia wrote:

Yeah it's a lovely duplex appartment in the middle of town. Got a nice big bedroom for Amelia and 2 bathrooms. Jammy sod!

That's good, I was worried he go too far to be convenient for Amelia

Im glad hes gone to give you some headspace and stop the games but im sorry he hasnt come to his senses xxx

marioandthestuntbubs wrote:

Im glad hes gone to give you some headspace and stop the games but im sorry he hasnt come to his senses xxx

My thoughts exactly xxx

Oh Lisa, i dont know what to say

Hope you're ok lisa, things will get better once he's gone. Just keep your held high and don't let him know if you get upset. I do think he'll regret it though xx

i hope you can look back on this in a few months time and see it posivitely, enjoy having some space from him and to do your own thing

Finally. It's for the best Lisa. Let him go and start living your life again.

(where in town is it? I can't think of any good places in the centre of the Port unless they have been building again)

We are all here for you while you adjust

Sorry to hear that it has come to this but as others have said you can now move on rather than being in limbo.

I know from splitting up with my ex that it is weird when you are on your own at first but you soon get used to it and wonder how you ever put up with the tense atmosphere!!!

On a practical note i hope that Dave comes through in terms of seeing Amelia regularly and making sure that you are both ok financially xx

GillandWil wrote:

Finally. It's for the best Lisa. Let him go and start living your life again.

(where in town is it? I can't think of any good places in the centre of the Port unless they have been building again)

We are all here for you while you adjust

Lol no it's in the centre of Chester, near HBOS and the cannal.

It is the best thing. But he used to do all his own ironing, washing and tidying anyway, he was very well house trained! Don't think he'll miss anything other than Amelia. But she will be a HUGE thing to miss x

Ah hun cant really say much more than what the others have said - and its his loss as your lovely
xx

Sorry it's come to this but hopefully one day you'll be able to look back from a happier place and think that this was the best thing that could have happened xxx