Title says it all really. Dave gets the keys to his new flat tomorrow. He thinks that he is going out on a "works night out" on Friday night. So when exactly does he think he's moving his stuff? I'm in work on Saturday morning and he said, yesterday, that when he moves out he would like to have Amelia on Friday night and Saturday day when I'm working on a Saturday. So he's moving out tomorrow and going on a night out? I don't think so. His priority I have just pointed out is to pack up his stuff and sort his new place for Amelia.

He's already only have Amelia one evening in the week (Tues) whilst I'm at work. And then a friday night, when I'm in work the next day and that's it. So he's going to have a cracking social life whilst I'm unable to go out for an evening ever unless I get a sitter, yet he can do as he pleases? Something is not right here! I love Amelia and I want to be with her all the time but I'm also going to have to rebuild my social life as I have none at all at the moment.

Oh and none of our mutual friends have bothered to contact me either, yet he's been on nights out with them. Feeling a bit sorry for myself and like I have no friends anymore

Im really peed off with them, they were rubbish when it first happened and they have just left you to it, its not fair and they should blimin well stick up for you too

As for Dave...well this sums it up

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Argh! What is wrong with him!? I want to give him a good slap for you!

Just make sure you have your dancing shoes on when we go out on 14th May!!!

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Huge hugs hun

I dont really have any advice but you are such a lovely person and dont deserve any of this shite being thrown at you!!

Dave is a complete idiot!! (putting it politely) xxx

argh silly man!

least he will be out of your hair a little hun x

Can you ask to split Amelias time a little more fairly.....not just for you, but for Amelia aswell....!!!???

He has no idea what effect his actions are gonna have on their relationship, and by god hes gonna have to work at it sooooo hard to make it in a Daddy and Daughter way!!

BTW, I am a 'pro' in internet dating if you need any advice - lol xxx My previous 2 relationships have been from their, and ive kissed a lot of frogs.....but my god I had fun whilst doing it x

Thanks everyone, I'm going to have a serious chat with him. I think it's sunk in that he needs to do other things and not go out tomorrow night. He'll be able to go out loads of other times as he's right in the centre of town. Think I may have to lay the law down over him having random women staying over whilst Amelia is there too.

Lisa I'll deffo be picking your brains hun! So good to hear you've had a good experience with it xxx

LisaGandAmelia wrote:

Think I may have to lay the law down over him having random women staying over whilst Amelia is there too.

TOO RIGHT!!!

IF (big if) he finds somebody new, he should make sure that he gets to know them before introducing them to Amelia. I would go skitzo if I was in that situation and James did something like that (although I am a bit skitzo anyway, lol).

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