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deecee24
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : the gravy train Posts : 564
| Subject: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:19 am | |
| Hi ladies Tonight he has finally decided it's over. Well he can flog his dead horse all by himself lol. I made him decide cause i'm not gonna be blamed for ending it. It wasn't my fault at all. If he can't change and be a man instead of a selfish, narcasistic, lazy, demeaning little boy god help the next woman he's gonna put through this. After a failed marraige and many failed relationships he should realise the repeating factor that IT IS HIM!!!!! I am now single and have my beautiful little daughter to myself. She don't like him much anyway as she climbs over him to get to me and screams if he picks her up when she's hurt cause she wants me then ha ha. Tomorrow i start to plan my new life back home where i come from 54 miles away from him. That is all. Yes i am a little bitter but at least i'm not crying. Dee x |
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LisaAdmin
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : Shropshire Posts : 8964
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:22 am | |
| Good call Dee - he doesnt deserve to be let off over and over again and it clearly is him that needs to grow up! |
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Mrs Cruise & Dee
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : dreamland ! Posts : 5016
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:23 am | |
| dee , im ever so sorry your family just did not work out but i am so happy that you can begin to live your life and be YOU ! not a skivvy for some daft man !
you and mia are going to have a fabby time together without the stress of arguments !
x x x |
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GuestGuest
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:24 am | |
| Good for you Dee He can treat you how ever he chooses but you have the choice to accept it or not. Make sure you get a legal agreement signed up for his access to Mia and maintenance payments. |
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stephandhannah
Age : 38 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : Glasgow Posts : 1615
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:25 am | |
| well done dee. you deserve so much more. you sound very strong right now just stay that way until you get away from him! have you somewhere to go? xxx |
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meandmyboys
Age : 38 Join date : 2010-08-26 Location : scotland Posts : 2023
About Me! My Name: sam Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:28 am | |
| i am sorry it hasnt worked out but you deserve so much better than him, i am sure you and mia will be a lot happier now xx |
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deecee24
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : the gravy train Posts : 564
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:28 am | |
| don't worry i will. It's not my first ballgame lol. He already pays for 2 kids through the csa that comes straight off his wages. This'll just be a third. Hopefully he'll leave Mia alone like he has the other 2. He hasn't bothered with them for years Steph - no i don't but i'm gonna phone the ho eless team at the council tomorrow. Dee x |
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Lisa & Alfie
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : West Yorkshire Posts : 625
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:30 am | |
| I'm sorry but WOOHOO!! You deserve so much better than him |
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deecee24
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : the gravy train Posts : 564
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:31 am | |
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stephandhannah
Age : 38 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : Glasgow Posts : 1615
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:34 am | |
| such a shame. look at her gorgeous face. why wouldnt someone want to know her! his loss eh! x |
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GuestGuest
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:39 am | |
| Dee I'm so pleased that are being so strong and positive. You will get times when you "oh shit I'm on my own" but you will move on and you will get over it! You and Mia will be so much happier without him. Just remember you have us lot and it's his loss.
Sending hugs and girl power! xx |
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Bumpwatcher
Join date : 2010-09-07 Location : East Midlands Posts : 1035
About Me! My Name: Status: Number of Children:
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:42 am | |
| Yay!! Good for you, after reading all your posts i was willing you to get away from him. I really hope you and Mia will be very happy without him, but i'm sure you will x x x |
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Mario
Join date : 2010-08-16 Posts : 6252
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:42 am | |
| Im sorry to say im not sorry dee. You deserve better and so does Mia and i hope your frame of mind stays this strong and positive |
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Tamsen&Louis
Age : 33 Join date : 2010-12-30 Location : Cleethorpes Posts : 129
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:43 am | |
| You sound like a role model for any woman keep your head held high your doing fab!! Girl power!! Xxx |
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Amy
Age : 37 Join date : 2010-09-05 Location : Sunderland Posts : 2579
About Me! My Name: Amy Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:49 am | |
| dee u r amazing. im so glad for u that this is now over. u deserve so much better and maybe u can get on with beign a fab mummy and lead the life u deserve with mia x |
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Kell
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:50 am | |
| Oh dee I'm genuinely pleased to see this post, I'm really sorry if that doesn't come across right. You are definatly doing the right thing you deserve to be treated like a queen!
Hugs! xxx |
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deecee24
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : the gravy train Posts : 564
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 7:52 am | |
| thanks ladies i will get there. Mia will be happy with her mum anyway. I've got phonecalls to make tomorrow. x |
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LisaMnGirls
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Lancashire Posts : 1367
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 8:11 am | |
| This is the first day of the rest of your life............ AND IT NOW LOOKS MIGHTY FOOKIN GOOD !!!!!!!!!!!!! xxx |
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me
Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : home Posts : 789
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 0
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 8:13 am | |
| Ah hun i really think he has been given enough chances, you and Mia do deserve soooo much better. His loss big time but he prob is that pig headed he would never know what hes missed out on! Im all for working thtough things and not giving up at silly little things that can be sorted or resolved, but with him you were banging your head against a very hard brick wall! Big hugs, it wont be easy to start off with but def gotta be better than the crap you've been listening to!! X |
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tigger
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : UK Posts : 1122
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 8:16 am | |
| Well done Dee you and Mia deserve better xx |
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pecan
Age : 49 Join date : 2010-08-26 Location : scotland Posts : 316
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 8:26 am | |
| sod him what aboot meeeeeeee dont leave me |
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*Meg*
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : South Wales Posts : 5152
About Me! My Name: Leah Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 8:28 am | |
| good for you girl. now to look forward to a brill future with your girlie x |
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deecee24
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : the gravy train Posts : 564
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 8:47 am | |
| - pecan wrote:
- sod him what aboot meeeeeeee dont leave me
I'll still visit. Maybe not as often but i'll be around. I need boxes and lots of them. Anybody got some i can borrow? x |
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jenshayne
Age : 54 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Canuckville Posts : 3290
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 12:40 pm | |
| This is great news hun! Not that I ever want to see families split up..but he's been a total dick head from the get go! You deserve so much better and you are now on track to find it! Good riddance! xxx |
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carrieann&JJ
Age : 36 Join date : 2010-08-20 Location : northampton Posts : 524
| Subject: Re: Now it's over!!!! I am single Thu Feb 24, 2011 6:41 pm | |
| you go and get the brightest furture for you.. good luck xx |
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