I've been to settle Amelia at Dave's for the night. No wonder he doesn't want to live with me anymore, his new place is amazing. It's huge, a propper batchelor pad, complete with empty champagne bottle from his celebration of being rid of me.

I'm really pissed off with myself as no matter how hard I tried I couldn't help but cry and I desperately didn't want to do that infront of him. I just couldn't stop the tears. I'm just completely heartbroken

oh huni i so sorry big hugs and kisses xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Aww Lisa hun, I wish I was closer so I could run round and give you a big hug. Thinking of you hun, you are a very strong lady and an amazing mummy and you will get through this hun. Pm me if you need an ear xxxx

Lisa I'm sorry your feeling rubbish

I hope soon Dave will realise what he has lost!!!! You will be happy again xx

Awww hunni

hugest of huge (((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))



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Lisa don't be daft - that place has nothing in comparison to you and is not the reason he has gone, he has gone cos he is a twat that cant appreciate what he had and thinks running off at the first sign of needing to work on a relationship is how things are done.

His new place might be swanky and shiny, but it wont love him and it will will more than likely be quite a lonely place where he has plenty of time to sit and think of what he has lost.

I wish I could give you a big hug, but you dont want my yakkiness right now xxxxx

He left all that kinda stuff out

Sorry your feeling like this xx

I don't think it's lonely there at all. He's already had his mates round for a boys night

the novelty will soon wear off for him, you'll move on and he'll end up lonely in his swanky pad, you're worth so much more xx

Aww, Lisa - I know how heartbroken you must be feeling right now, but in time you will move on and be happy again - and what will he have?! a big house and and empty champer's bottle - I know which i'd choose hun..Love and hugs chick

LisaGandAmelia wrote:

I don't think it's lonely there at all. He's already had his mates round for a boys night

He will be at some point - he can only fill it so many nights of the week, it wont be like home where you were there for him and Amelia was there for him.
I've been there and got the tshirt - its all fun and games til you are there on your own, and then it hits home (although I never regretted kicking my husband out, but I still questioned if I had done the right thing and felt lonely)

lisa , mahoosive huggles hun !


i also think once the novelty of this shiny new places wears off and he is sitting there with only the walls for company he will realise the grass just aint always greener on the other side x

I hope things get easier for you soon!

You are a beautiful woman Lisa with a beautiful personality. Dave is a complete twat for not putting in more effort and taking the easy way out. It won't find him the happiness he expects. His mates can only keep him company for so long. They can't offer him the love that you did and when they go home he will be very, very lonely.

It may not feel like it sweetheart but he has actually done you a favour, because you deserve so much more. There is someone out there for you, who deserves you and when the time is right he will find you.

HUGE (((((((((hugs))))))))) x x x x x x

Thank you all. I know I'm just wallowing. I've been fine all week but then seeing him brought it all back and then having to leave Amelia too just tipped me over the edge. I'm in a bit of a hole tonight, I'm sure Ill have dug myself out of it by morning x

aww hun i am so sorry he will soon see what a twat he has been when amelia comes home to you and his swanky pad is left without the laughter and joys that she brings, and when she does come back to you it will seem quiet and he will have to clear up after her all by himself and he has to cook for her too.

His mates will soon get bored they will be there for him for a while but then they have their own lives too.

he will soon realise his mistake when he is sat there with no one to talk too and he is left staring at an unopend toybox eating his ready meal for one, and laying in that bed all by himself with no one to cuddle.

i am sending you a massive hug xxxx

I edited because i forgot to add

he will mahoosivly regret it when you feel ready enough to think about dating again as he seems to be in the place where he dosnt want you but he also dosnt like the thought of anyone else bing with you, xx

bloody charming isnt it how they can live the high life...he will realise what a pratt he has been and what he has lost soon enough, once the novelty of the new flat wears off im sure it wont seem so amazing

hugs xxxxxx

awww hun, thinking of you. There will be times like this now and then when you literally feel like your heart is in real pain. As other ladies have said, he is such an immature numpty for just taking the easy route. Well believe you me, he is a fool and if he has given up on his family so easily then maybe he's not the man for you. lots of love to you. You are beautiful, kind and a fab mummy, just remember that xx

it's nice to have a bit of a wallow! it sounds a bit like maybe you have moved onto the next stage (kind of like grief..it is a bereavement of sorts afterall!), but that also means you are a little bit closer to getting over it and feeling better/finding your own place in life things will get better x

Mmmmmmwwwwwwaaaaahhhhh xxxxxxx

I hope your feeling better Lisa, things will get easier in time, that much we can promise!

Hugs xx

Oh Hun massive hugs. His new place might be swanky but it's missing one of the most important things, his family and I am sure in time he will realise that. I hope by then you will realise you are worth 1000 of him and tell him to *$%£ off cause you deserve better.
I am convinced in time you will meet someone who deserves and appreciates you. I just wanna hug you xxxxxxxxx

Honestly Lisa do not let it get you down, as the other ladies have said there is only so far a swanky flat etc can cheer you up. Dave has left a gap in your life and undoubtedly you and amelia have left a gap in his. He will try and cover this up by filling his time by going out,booze etc. I have been there and can tell you that this only works for a very short time before you start to think about the things that you are missing in your life.

My sincere hope is that you meet someone else who deserves you very soon and then when Dave comes creeping back you can tell him in a very nice way thanks but no thanks!

Keep smiling nice lady xxx

I'm so sorry you're going through this Lisa but it will get easier in time and like the other girls have said, it's all very well having a swanky pad to live in but at the end of the day it'll still be just him lonely and alone. You're going to have an amazing future with someone who deserves you xxxx

im hormonal and reading this just makes me wanna give you a big HUG