We went to visit Ollies grave earlier to tidy him up a bit and put fresh flowers down. While we were there this couple came in with a dog and a little boy who was about 10. Me and oh went over to see another baby a little girl who is burried near Ollie. We've seen her parents a couple of times and they've moved away so we offered to keep an eye on her aswell as were up ther alot.

So while we were over there checking on her this little brat walks over to Ollie's grave and takes his rugby ball. He's got a little mini bench which his teddies sit on and the rugby ball is one of their laps then all of it is tied on with ribbon, so not exactly easy to get it off anyway. I was about to storm over when oh grabbed me and told me to wait because the little boys dad was walking over to him. So stood there waiting to see what he was going to do and he took the ball off him and $%&^*(& kicked it for the boy to fetch it. THen they started playing catch with it

I went absolutely mental and started shouting at them THe mother then tells me I shouldn't leave toys there if I didn't want children to play with them, WTF! The best bit is they werent even there visiting a grave they were just taking the dog for a walk, fecking weirdos!

OMG that's awful, some people have no consideration for others at all, hope you're ok xxx

wtf who takes something off a grave to play with???!!!

Oh I'd have been raging it don't matter what it is if it's on a grave it shud never be picked up by someone else

what complea disrespectful wankers how dare they!! i would of kicked right off!

OMG that would pee me right off!!

His parents should be ashamed of themselves!!!

I always wonder what goes through these peoples heads when doing stuff like that! When we go to visit my little girls grave i always get so upset at the state of the cemetary, there are wine bottles and cider bottles all over the place

Sorry you had to go through that

Oh god hun that is disgusting!!!

I'm so so sorry you had to go that xxxx

That is crazy behaviour, what horrible people. That is so disrespectful. Sorry sweets, hope you are ok x x x

oh my god. Im so ashamed for them. thats absolutely disgusting.

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thats is £^%$*(& disgusting, how bloody dare he !!! I would have given the mother a slap, stupid £^%$*(& biatch !!!! xx

If I wasn't pregnant I would have Meg!

I understand kids will be kids but for his parents to think thats ok just shocked the hell out of me!

that is awful, some people have no decency at all, hope you're ok chick. xx

OMG I cannot believe this, my blood is boiling for you so I cannot even imagine how upset/angry you must be.

The little boy wouldn't have known what he did was wrong but the dad......OMG what an absolute disgrace!!!

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That is absolutely appalling!!!!!!

pregnant or not i dont think i would been responsible for my actions.

i am so angry for you right now!!!!

I honestly don't know what to say to that - I am just absolutely appaled and the blatant lack of respect

What hope is there for that kid with parents like that? I can't even begin to comprehend how angry I would be if I ever found out one of my children did anything like that. By 10 years old he should have enough intelligence and respect to know about death and graves etc but obviously his parents are failing him - imbeciles!

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OMG thats just not excusable to be honest... Im with Jo id of still smacked the silly bint, prob even more so when preggers, my hormones are crazy at best of times.
really hope you are ok, and i really am proper mad for you too
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Thats so disgusting!!! Even if the lil boy made an error in judgement his parents should have stpped it immediately thats a total lack of respect for others they are teaching him. How f*cking dare they. Stupid morons, people like that have no idea how their actions affect others

that is awful! im lost for words. big hugs xxxx

You should have kicked them in the face!
Did you get the ball back?
I am so pissed off! How friggin' dare they, that is so disrespectful!
Who takes their dog and child for a walk through a graveyard?
They were probably there for a scrounge the bastards Facebook Login

I actually pity these people that they have so little respect for others that they would behave in this way.

The little boy I can almost excuse because it is not his fault he is badly brought up.
The father I can dismiss as a twat
The mother I cannot think of words low enough for.

The most painful thing you could have responded to her with would have been 'how would you feel if it was your boy in there?'


BTW my OH's parents used to walk their dog through a graveyard but mainly because their house was surrounded by it on 3 sides

I'm just so unbelievably angry for you hun. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. I have no words to describe those people, I think you were incredibly restrained xxx

Yeah Emz, fair play for the boy he did give it back when I asked for it. x

omg i am actually fuming for you right now what inconsiderate bastards...ahhh i am so angry, the kid has obviousley not been shown any respect because id have thought at that age he would know it was disrespectful...i used to go visit my gran's baby with my nan, even at the age of 5 i knew it wasnt right to do things like that, i didnt even step on the graves...i am appauled anyone would think it was ok...try not to let it play on your mind hun , easier said than done i know xxxxxx

I have no words for how disgusted I am, I hope your ok hun xx

omfg - disgraceful !!

how can anybody think thats an ok thing to do or say !!

tossers !! x