BROODY!!


It would be the perfect time for us to have another, i'm off work for a few years whilst we are expats in Denmark. Jack will soon be starting pre school.


I'll be home alone all day!

But oh dont want one, its actually really bothereing me that he dont. We had a scare a couple of months back and he was fine with it and were not being extra careful (with drawing)


Why cant i convince him?

maybe he just doesn't really like the idea, but if he was faced with the reality he would be fine - a sort of commitment thing! (by no means do i mean just get pregnant !)

has he told you why he doesn't want to start trying? maybe that's a good place to start

The method you are using is like russian roulette so it is only a matter of time before you have 'an accident'

If your OH really didn't want another one he wouldn't be risking it like this so there must be at least a little bit of him that does.

I know that Gill, keep telling him!

He says he's happy as we are, no other reason.


Think we need a 'chat' about it.