I have been playing socks and I ran out of space so had to send one to a friend and an ex of mine is on the list of people i can send socks to
Went on the page and it seems we are friends. His wall has not been used since 2008 and I have not spoken to him since before my wedding - by which time he was using a friends facebook.
I deleted him after a huge row because he wanted to come to the wedding and I said no.
I have had no friend request from him and I have not sent one either

how bizzare, i know a few people who have deactivated their accounts and the reactivated it and they have reappeared on my freinds list without readding so maybe that has happened, otherwise thats confusing lol!! x

he told me on chat that he reactivated his account.
Phew!