Me and hannah went to visit my sis today and we decided to go to asda to pick up some nice dinner for my mum getting home from work.
so we get back and my dad was out with the dog and my sis never had keys. so we plonk our bums down on the steps outside to wait.
5 minutes later he comes back. this is how the convo went:

him: did none of you take keys?
me: well no its not my house I dont have keys for it
him: ciara what $%&^*(& age are you? cant you take keys with you? (getting louder)
ciara: erm are you kidding?
him: it doesnt take any time at all to put your keys on your car keys does it? so drop the attitude!
ciara: and you wonder why we all hate you?
him: if I wasnt walking YOUR dog I would have been in wouldnt I?

honestly LOST THE PLOT!!!! so what was I saying about that nursing home

oh but it gets worse. hannah spilled the dogs water and he says to her "every $%&^*(& week you do this"
I just looked at him like he was a bit of shit on my shoe because Im not rising to his games anymore.

he then texts my mum saying "before your head is filled with shite all I said was why dont you put your keys on your car keys then you wont forget them"

OH wants to kill him for speaking to hannah like that. but I am surprisingly calm!

I'm surprised you are calm, I would have lost the bloody plot if anybody spoke to the girls like that.

I can't blame your oh for wanting to throttle him.

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How on earth you managed to keep calm I'll never know, your dad sounds like a grade A twat. I hope it made him really feel like a man shouting and swearing at a 2 year old girl, $%&^*(& wanker!

Well done keeping your calm I would have been fuming and tempted to knock him out! If anyone spoke to my kids like tht I wouldn't b able to keep my mouth shut!
As for the house keys incident that's just pathetic (hope you don't mind me saying) if you'd had a go about him not being in or something like tht then fair enough, sounds like he's bein a prize pillock. Maybe he's stressed about something and doesn't feel he can tlk about it? I know that's been the cause when i've been in similar situations
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he does things like this all the time that I am past the stage of being angry. because it makes me feel like I am like him. Looking at him like he is stupid and worthless has more of an effect. you could see afterwards that he felt bad and stupid for it. if I had been angry it would have caused world war three that would still be going on right now.

he thinks the world is against him. thats what his problem is.

I think he has serious mental issues that have never been addressed properly to be honest.

Well done you. I love your style.

I always say the best way to handle irrational anger is to pity it and not react.

What a pillock your dad looks now

well apparently he didnt feel so stupid after all. we went up today for 5 mins to pick my mum up to go food shopping and we must have woken the loser up at 12.30pm.

he gets up and hannah asked him for a drink of milk his reply was "what you telling me for. ask your maw"

wow what a lovely charming thing to say to a 2 year old. so I walked in and said those are the last words you will say to her and we left.

he then texts my mum and my sneaky sister once again reads the texts
he basically said that hes glad we wont go up there again, he has no time to run after hannah thats what Im there for, the next time he sees me Im getting it.
last night hannah was jumping all over my sisters head and she said hannah your annoying me sweetheart and apparently why cant I moan at her for saying that? what he said wasnt as bad as that.

So Im done with him. Id like to see him try and touch me because I will kill him with one punch Im so angry!!

sorry girls for ranting I just need to get it out!