First topic message reminder :

It would seem a running theme that mothers day this year is not gonna be go great for some.
My oh has informend me that i have nothing not even a card, However we are going out for a meal. No effort what so ever has been made on his part, the meal was arranged by his sisters for his mum, i'm going because i'm his oh not because its a celebration for me. Just kinda kills two birds with one stone really.

So i'm trying to figure out if i'm ok with nothing as its another holiday just like valentines day where the card companies benefit from every single person buying something as they 'have' to, or if actually i am gutted because my oh doesn't seem to make any effort what so ever.

hmmmmm