ok am i unreasonable to ask that hubby for once in a while to come to bed same time as me go to bed about 11 ish .
he recons he can come up have sex then go back down stars till 2-3am every night .

saying 11 is EARLY so i have no put into place if u come to b ed with me get sex if you dont u wont .LMAO

11 is late for me. especially when i get up at 6, defo need a sex ban... he will come to bed at 9 in future then lol x

I dont think its unreasonable. Id nearly go so far as to say its a bit direspectful to come up, get laid, and go back downstairs. Its the wanting sex is the issue not the staying up late....

In saying that im a night owl too and frequently dont settle to bed until 1/2am. My OH is only here at weekends so during the week it doesnt effect him me being up late.
He works at 6am mon-fri & is usually in bed by 10pm. I know i'l find it really hard to go to bed at a reasonable hr when he's able to stay here full time. I'l have to do it for his benefit, and it wont be to get sex lol, just so that he gets a good nights sleep without me disturbing him half the night. I think its an issue of respect, however id be pissed at him if he gave me a 'bedtime' as such.

What does he do until 2/3am? Does he have to get up for work? I know somedays I can be a right moody cow but its all my own fault for staying up so late. I suppose it depends if him being up so late is affecting your relationship & time with the kids. xxx

hi no he works 3 evenings a week but does the school run every moring . he sits and plays games on pc all night . i hate sex and would happily never have it again lol but he likes it obviosly . but have told him i would like him to be inbed by 1am as miss him half the niht as back up ay 6 often i wake at 3 plu7s and he is still down stairs . wouldnt mind one off but this is every nihbt ealiest he comes up is 2 am

You are not being unreasonable at all. We tend to always go to bed at the same time and its normally my OH who is desperate to be there by 10pm x

we go to bed at the same time on weekdays but fri and sat he stays up till about 3am.
and i must admit theres been quite a few times that hes come up with me at weekend just for sex them gone back down but thats stopped now as i told him i felt used and abused!!! x

neil is often up later than me but he will go to bed at the same time if he wants owt - its usually how i know!

You're not unreasonable!

Does he do the sex thing every night?

yep he trys to gte it every night . jammy little bugger . lucky if he gets it once a months at the mo just not interested