it was my oh's last day at work today (yay!) He finished about 11:30pm, and was going to come straight home, but i said he should at least get a drink after work.. so he went out at 11:30pm, it's now nearly 4:30am and he's still not home, no text or anything

i know it's his last day so it's good to get out and celebrate, but he had his proper leaving party this week (out until 5am that time) and he said he was only going for a couple - then wonders why i never trust he's only going for a couple!

pointless rant i know, but i woke up at 2am, can't get back to sleep so i'm tired and grumpy

big hugs hunnie, im just the same when oh stays out late, just think not long and you will be back in the uk and can settle into a new routine xxxx

Aww, I can see how frustrating it is, OH say to me that he's 'just popping round to him mates for 1/2hr' I take that as 'I'm going to my mates, i'll be back when I get bored'..

Bit shite when they don't text though!

Got over myself last night after a good sleep

But it gets better! He's out tomorrow night, was with a friend but now 2 random girls have decided to go, so it will be 2 boys, 2 girls and I'm very emphatically not invited. Cosy! Also, when it was just the 2 boys, he said he would be home early, but now the girls are going too, he "might be out until the next morning". Joy!

Think I might just go home a couple of days early

Woooooooohhh hold on a minute! "Might not be back til next morning??" I would be reeling if that was Rob and he suddenly changed his mind when the 2 girls decide to tag along!! And why the hell aren't you invited?? xx

I really dont know how you can be so calm about this Nat and make light of it. My o/h would never dream of going out all night let alone as a foursome with 2 girls You have every right to be pissed off, I know you are probably letting it go a little because he is coming to England but I think he acts totally out of order.
Thank god you are coming back home to England where youll have friends and family to support you. And as said above - Why the hell arent you ever invited xx

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Also, when it was just the 2 boys, he said he would be home early, but now the girls are going too, he "might be out until the next morning".

Ahem?! Mr NatKat!!! you have had your nights out!! No more

Right? But if I say anything about it, he just flips out - he just shouted at me earlier because I said pretty much what you said, Nutty & Semo, he said being with me was like being in prison, presumably because he's not allowed to drink until the next morning with girls? Don't think this guy has a clue what the word marriage means. But apparently he can do what he wants because we're going to England for me. Because I'm a big selfish cow it seems. Aaaaarrrrrrggggghhhhhh!!!!!!

But but but.. they're travelling a long way to see him, so it would be rude not to stay out late.. he hasn't seen them for years so he's got to make the effort.. grr! I know I sound like a cow, i'm sorry, i just am at the end of my tether

You dont sound like a cow AT ALL!

When your lil prince is a few months old I reckon you should go out and leave him with the boys while you do an all night drinking session with some boys from your high school and see how he likes that!

Tbh I think you'l feel so much happier and stronger when you are back in England. Plus I'l be very surprised if he feels able to act like such an arse when your family are so close to you and able to step in. xxx

Oooo Nat he is winding me up and I dont even know him, I cant believe how he is turning all this on you Is it a Japan thing?? Do most men treat their partners like this out there? What a pity you couldnt just fly home while he is on his all nighter that would shit the life out him.

Oh and you ARE MOST DEFINATELY NOT A COW, in fact id say he is extremely lucky to have someone as tolerent as you, If it were me I dont think there would even be an 'us' any more. x

Nutty, am I ever tempted!! I could cope with a 12 hour flight with milo and bump if i just kept picturing his face!

Snoop, I am ON IT!! But do you know what, I wouldn't do that to him, no matter how inncent it was, and I wouldn't shout at him for being anxious about it if I did! I would reassure him, invite him, intriduce them do SOMETHING!! I'm sick of this always being my fault, I'm possessive..

Arrrgghh!! How dare he say something like that?!! Why get married then, if he thinks being with you is like prison! He is going to get a huge shock when he moves over here!! xx

*warms up nipple clamps and electric cables*

Tell me about it, Semo!