Why MC happen? will it be something that i have done?

Did i maybe over do it?

OH says we can just try again but the thought of going through this again makes me never want to try again

There can be any number of reasons why miscarriage happens, most common reason is there was something wrong genetically, it wont be anything you did so dont go worrying about that x After my 1st miscarriage me and my o/h decided to try again straight away as we couldnt bare to wait and you are apparantly more fertile after a miscarriage, did fall again but unfortunately things ended the same way at the same sort of time. The doctor still leans towards it being bad luck and believes I will go on to have a healthy pregnancy as I am a healthy person. I cant bare the thought of going through it a 3rd time but cant imagine not having another child either.

Aww, Kelly, don't give up. I don't believe its anything you have done at all as with many miscarriages. Some times it just happens maybe if there was a fault in the foetus, maybe wasn't developing right etc. I'm really not sure, but don't be beating yourself up.

It doesnt mean you did anything wrong kell, I lost one the month before I feel pg this time and am now 14 weeks despite doing absolutely nothing different

aww kelly there is nothing you could have done hun ,,,i believe in the wee baba just wasnt 100% and not meant for this world xx

i just spoke to my brother and he made me laugh. he said what if there is 7 in there and they decided there is not enough room for 7 only 6 so played rock paper scissors and the loser has to move out.

I know not very sensitive but he's the same sense of humour as me and it made me laugh

Awww sweetie, they dont happen for a reason and it totally wont have been anything you did/didnt do.

life is just very cruel x

You didn't do anything to cause it Kelly, it's natural to feel like you want to blame something but sometimes these things just happen, you know where I am if you need someone to talk to xxx

the million quid question listen to ur bro. that cracked me up!!

xx

aw kel just seen!! im so sorry hun!! had everything possiable crossed for you!!

its just life being blinking cruel hun, you didnt do anything!!
big hugs x x x

You gotta love a brother with a sense of humour like that! He sounds like my brother!!

Like everyone has said its one of lifes shitty mysteries! And nothing you did or could have done to change the outcome! I can honestly say I am lucky enough to have never had to go through it at that early a stage! But dont give up hun it will happen!

xxxx

I've been reading up on early mc myself hun and when it happens like this it really does tend to be a genetic thing, you really did nothing wrong and couldn't have changed things. I know that doesn't help right now.
I really hope you are ok and of course Trev, if you don't feel upto trying straight away thats absolutly your choice!


I did lol when i read your brothers comment! what a great soh!

(((Big hugs))) i just wish i could do more xx

Not sure..why they happen...my MC happened at 13 weeks..had a little bump and everything. It's one of the most devastating thing to go through as a woman and a mom...and it was a constant thought when going through my pregnancy with Makynlee. xxx

As the other ladies have said i'm sure you didn't do anything wrong....just take care of yourselves. Sending you a massive hug xxxx

jenshayne wrote:

Not sure..why they happen...my MC happened at 13 weeks..had a little bump and everything. It's one of the most devastating thing to go through as a woman and a mom...and it was a constant thought when going through my pregnancy with Makynlee. xxx

I was the same at 22 weeks with my two and again this time! Even though I knew that my MC wasnt something that could be repeated!!

xxx

Hi
so sorry. Please don't give up. I lost one at 15 weeks, I'd seen it on a scan and everything and when I lost it I didn't ever want to go through it again .... But I'm glad I did as I've got my ellie now.

aww keelly im so sorry this has happened to you xxxxxx

as i have said before i had 3 miscarrys and always blamed myself and i also thought it was because i am resus a neg.. but i had alot of expensive tests done to help find a reason but they all come back fine with no problems and ws told it really was bad luck which didnt help but it gave me hope and i had jamie and them amelie not long after xxxxx