ok im going to try keep this as short as possible !

OH has not seen his brother in over a year , his brother has not even met D !
his wife and i have never seen eye to eye , we ended up mailing each other agreeing to meet up and sort this out !
after that i found out that she had been on a forum and slagged the fuk outta me including some major lies ! which didnt really show me she wanted to sort things out at all !
anyways i have just got a mial saying they are going to be in town next week and could we meet up all of us at a play centre
what would you do ! ?,,, bearing in mind i am sooooo hurt she accused me of making up my miscarraige claiming noone was at any scans etc where my OH and best friend actually were !

Im sorry but i would have to have it out with her.
Thats just plain nasty saying things like that xx

she is completely unaware that i know that she has said all these things regarding me ,, she has no idea that i am on this forum x

How did she even get any info about you? and why would she *^$% you off if you have never even met? I am so pissed off for you Michelle! I would still meet up..but make her well aware that you have found all this out and want to discuss why she did that to you without even knowing you! How awful! xxx

personally i would just say 'no ta' and forget about her - i know it's easier said than done in some families, but i just don't believe you have to have people you don't like/cause you trouble in your life just cos they are related or married to someone!

jen hun , she was my best friends fried then i came into equation and ended up with her BIL
she was nice enough to me at very beginning then chinese whispers happened

major kick off was i wrote on mutual friends page xmas when preg sayin i was living it up cos i had a beer on xmas day and a wine spritzer at new year or vice versa ,, it was decided i was a preg alcoholic who smoked 20 fags a day ! , neither true !,, i had not even announced my pregnancy to my family as i had m/c the month before and didnt want to say nout until i knew everything was ok but then OH brother posted a link for drinking in pregnancy on my wall which pretty much announced my pregnancy to the world !

OH parents took a dislike to me in beginning im assuming down to her but later apologised and said they now know me for themselves and realise she is nasty

That is unforgivable hun! Totally sunk to a whole new level of LOW! Ya..perhaps not meeting up me be a good idea! xxx

Your relationship with her sounds very similar to my relationship with my sil! I personally wouldn't bother meeting her. I can live my life happily but as soon as I
in her company I get so down and my confidence just melts. But I do see her as it means so much to my oh.