When I was pregnant with Aimee, I seemed to develop this real hatred for my family (parents & in laws).
I couldnt stand the thought of them being near my baby, telling me what to do, etc.... no idea why, they are all fantastic, but I used to have imaginary arguements in my head with them!
As soon as she was born, it went away and everything was cool.
But... it is coming back again and I am trying to keep a lid on it but I feel that the slightest word out of turn will set me off.
My dad & step mum are coming for dinner today as its their wedding anniversary, and all morning I have been pshycing myself up for a fight... for no reason, as they are absolutely great! The only little flaw they have is that they can sometimes patronise me and talk to me like I am a 5 year old, but it doesnt happen often and I put them straight if they attempt it.
When Aimee was born we made it clear that we didnt want anybody at the hospital when I was in labour, my dad and step mum ignored this request and turned up, which caused James to be pretty upset. I never got a chance to sort this out at the time as Aimee got really ill, and it just didnt seem to matter. But, now I have got a right bee in my bonnet over it, but its too late to speak about it, lol!
I feel like a right nutter!
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) I don't really know what to suggest other than sit them down and tell them everything that's bothering you, although I know I wouldn't be able to 
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