yes hopadom did mean me ..!! and it wasnt a rude reply to hopadom either!! and also this post was to say about the freinds on banda.. no other reason... also as i stated poeple where took off from other site as i didnt have a clue who was who..and if they where genuinly interested in beingme freind to re add me... they wernt taken off because they had done anything to offend me ..i ididnt have a clue who was who!!!!

so why has this thread been turned into a biatch!

Nobody is bitching - just pointing out why some may feel upset or rejected at not being included.

xx

OH NO....STOP!!!!!!

Seriously, I didn't want world war 3 to break out here.

Debs you hit the nail on the head with a few points you made there and Emma was right...I was talking about her when I referred to a couple of people from this site. We discussed it at the time on FB and like Debs said, if you had wanted to re-add me Emma, you had that choice. AND I didn't take your reply as rude either Emma. We post to each other on here offering support, it was just that I did get offended on FB and seeing this thread, I felt it was time I said something. I understand your reason for deleting people from the 'other' site but you would have known I was not an enemy or a snoop by the comments I made on your FB and photo's. I didn't name you in my original post because that is not the type of person I am!

Please don't let this turn nasty, it is not necessary!! Debs was not having a go at you Emma, merely voicing her opinion.

x x x x x

hopadom ..i hope you read the part on my post that everyone was deleted my freinds aswell.. also at the time of our messaging i for the life of me didnt relise which jo you were..it wasnt until you come on here ! every single person from the other site was taken off my facebook

as for rejection.. i was ejected off a site for no bloody reason ..so if anyone was to be uspet .. that that was me.. but i just wiped it out..simples ..not to pffend anyone.. me and hopadom already had our talk!! anyway hops what does (imop) mean lol i for life cant thing what it means

Whoopsie!! Meant IMO - in my opinion!

Yes Emma, we did have our talk but I must admit I did feel hurt by it. It's kinda like the point Debs was trying to make, you see, after all was said and done...you had the choice of whether to re-add me or not, and you chose not to. Same as the point Debs was trying to make in the last paragraph of her post about starting this thread. I, as I'm sure all who read it, went to their friends and foes list to see this pending friends request....

I really don't want this to sound like anyone is ganging up on you Emma. If I were with you in person now, I would be saying this to you in a gentle manner and that's how I want you to take it...I'm not sitting here like this just trying convey my feelings as best I can x

the thread was for the people that i had added and it was still pending!! nothing more nothing less ..also telling people about it!! an if you where still so upset why not pm me jo ?.. intead casuing a heated thread ? i have no issue with anyone and wasnt causing any!! i have plenty of insecuritys about people on here and other site .. but i just let it go....as i said before . all ab freind where taken off.. and as i said before poeple only messaged me becasue i deleted them nto wondering if i was ok becaus ei had been banned and didnt bloody know why!! ANy way im off it now

My intention wasn't to turn this in to a heated thread Emma, more to express my opinion and feelings. I did like Debs said and checked my friends and foes and didn't have a request. It just brought it all back again I guess.

I didn't pm you as I had done that once already and had not really got anywhere with it. I am truly sorry it has got out of hand, I didn't want it to. When I originally replied to this thread it wasn't purely aimed at you, as I said I was just expressing my opinion.

Sorry x

jo you dont have to say sorry ata ll but if you where still upset then i would of prefered a pm to sort.. i have themessages on fb ..and othere than telling u a few times it wasnt personal i felt there was nt much else i could say to you! to explain why i had done it x

Yes, I know you did. I was just left feeling...well if it's not personal, then why not re-add me? Guess I should have said that at the time but I didn't want to feel like I was forcing your hand. I think also the fact that I'd only recently commented on one of your photo's (in a nice way) and still been deleted....well, to me it spoke volumes.

I'm sure we could go on about this for eternity. I guess it is now time to lay it to rest. I know you said I don't need to apologise but I didn't want you to feel like I was bitching. This was all genuine and from the heart. Not just because my nose got put out of joint x x

jo i have pm you x..

I'd just like to publicly thank you Emma for taking the time to get this sorted. It's nice to be able to talk through problems.

So glad it's all been sorted and we can get back on track.

Thanks hun x x x

Ooo, how's your back today...?

thanks jo you didnt have too x

yea its actually n0t to bad today but that might be because i have had a good 24 hours of painkiller x