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Kell
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:18 am | |
| Me and OH are pretty much the most useless people in the world when it comes to decision making! I want to please everyone and often at the detriment to myself, and he just doesn't like making decisions lol It does my head in! Even deciding whats for dinner can be a f-ing pain in the bum! And here we are again, we both want to have another baby, and yet we would both love to go on holiday together alone next year but being pregnant wouldn't really be an option, but do you think we can actually decide which we'd like more?! I do my head in!! |
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michellenevan
Age : 40 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : scotland Posts : 1037
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:22 am | |
| i usually make the big decisions lol!! u can ask my oh sumit and still be waitin for an answer 3 days later so i jst get pissed off and do my own thing haha! |
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*Meg*
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : South Wales Posts : 5152
About Me! My Name: Leah Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:23 am | |
| ME !!!! End of |
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jenshayne
Age : 54 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Canuckville Posts : 3290
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:28 am | |
| Me! Shayne can't pick out his own clothing ffs without my input! |
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snoopy21
Join date : 2010-08-20 Posts : 5101
About Me! My Name: Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:30 am | |
| Me! I complain to OH alot of the time that he leaves every little decision up to me. He says that I pick what I want anyway and if he ever does decide something I tell him it was wrong and he was a tool for doing it (quite possibly true ). We have nearly came to blows in Tesco at times because he's refused to suggest things for dinner There are times it seriously does my head in because it means im responsible for all the bad choices. I wish sometimes he would take over and be a man but most of the time Im quite happy being in charge. |
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Laura
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Northampton Posts : 6084
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:31 am | |
| I make the decisions, but let him think they were his idea - winners all round! x |
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Amandaplus2
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Preston, Lancs Posts : 2228
About Me! My Name: Amanda Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:32 am | |
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Suse
Age : 42 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : England Posts : 3128
About Me! My Name: Suse Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:32 am | |
| Unfortunately both of us, we have to compromise ALOT At the moment Simon wants to move but I really don't - not sure how we're going to compromises on that one though x |
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michellenevan
Age : 40 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : scotland Posts : 1037
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:33 am | |
| snoopy my oh is exactly the same! i get the blame for all the decisions if they r bad decisions, even if they have been his idea yet the good decisions well they were all him of course! even evan lol, he suggested ttc, and now if evan is in a great mood and happy he was daddys idea if he is being a total whingy grump all i hear is "he is all urs u wanted to have a baby" lol |
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hopadom
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Suffolk, UK Posts : 390
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:37 am | |
| Generally me, because it means he has less responsibilities But with your decision Kelly...all I can say is if you really want this holiday then go for it because you probably won't get another chance if you don't! x |
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Kinkyangel
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Leicester Posts : 1331
About Me! My Name: Clare Status: Mummy Number of Children: 3
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:44 am | |
| I make the decisions cause its quicker and a lot less painful! I do occasionally throw a total wobbly and tell him he has to pull his finger out and make some decisions but somehow we always end up back with me doing it all!!
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LisaAdmin
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : Shropshire Posts : 8964
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:46 am | |
| Me! Dan is terrible at making a choice - he is sat looking at the chinese menu this very second..and asked ME what HE should have |
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pinkyd
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : durham Posts : 3931
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:50 am | |
| Me, David is too indecisive and laid back. |
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hopadom
Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : Suffolk, UK Posts : 390
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:54 am | |
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olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:57 am | |
| I asked my oh if he was hungry earlier and he said I don't know, says it all really son't it lol |
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DonnaAdmin
Age : 46 Join date : 2010-08-17 Location : Wakefield Posts : 3100
About Me! My Name: Donna Status: Mummy Number of Children: 0
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:58 am | |
| - MiniMeg wrote:
- ME !!!! End of
Same in our house! I rule |
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LisaAdmin
Age : 44 Join date : 2010-08-15 Location : Shropshire Posts : 8964
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:58 am | |
| - olliesmammy wrote:
- I asked my oh if he was hungry earlier and he said I don't know, says it all really son't it lol
OMG what a divvy! Thats the exact kind of thing Dan would say! Do you want a cuppa? 'I dont know' errrr righto! |
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Kell
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:01 am | |
| LMAO! oh i'm glad my oh is a useless as everyone elses then! Hopadom, your right i've got far less chance of getting away if there's two babies to think of! |
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michellenevan
Age : 40 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : scotland Posts : 1037
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:02 am | |
| - Lisa wrote:
- olliesmammy wrote:
- I asked my oh if he was hungry earlier and he said I don't know, says it all really son't it lol
OMG what a divvy! Thats the exact kind of thing Dan would say!
Do you want a cuppa? 'I dont know' errrr righto! things like that really get on my nerves ill say to my oh im away thru the kitchen u want anything and he says dont know what r u having? grrr either u want sumit or u dont!! or he jst doesnt answer for ages or will say anythings fine thats another that annoys me cos then u jst give them anything and they dont want it |
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Kell
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:06 am | |
| that or you get 'er i don't know suprise me!' WTF i talking about a drink here! wheres the suprise in that? And it'll always be the wrong suprise lol |
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Lisa & Alfie
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-08-19 Location : West Yorkshire Posts : 625
About Me! My Name: Lisa Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:07 am | |
| I'm the most indecisive person ever, so normally him. BUT when i can decide about something then what i say goes |
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GuestGuest
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:12 am | |
| Big financial desicions - he does small- what we having for tea - I do all others we decide together, and it usually takes ages to decide. |
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Zee
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : UK Posts : 2968
About Me! My Name: Zee Status: Mummy Number of Children: 1
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 7:51 am | |
| I'm the decision maker in our house, OH is pants at making decisions We're going out for his birthday next month and I said were do you fancy going? he said 'i'll let you decide' Wtf man?! its your birthday That is a toughy though Kell, I don't think I could even make a decision on that one Good luck deciding - You might have to head or tails it! |
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emmaXx
Age : 43 Join date : 2010-08-16 Location : southampton Posts : 1280
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:02 am | |
| well we both talk about about an dhe gives me is opinion ont hings then the final desicion lays with me.. aprt from he is adamane he isnt gonna have any more children..well he said that with the last 3 lol |
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Kell
Age : 41 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
| Subject: Re: Who makes the decisions in your relationship? Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:04 am | |
| Do you want more kids emma? |
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