OH has just called to say that there is an away day and overnight stay with work being planned, and he has to reply by monday about whether he wants to go or not.
Its all fine obviously i'd rather he didn't go, it makes me a little uneasy tbh.
But its on his actual birthday
I asked whats stopping him from going and his reply was 'you wouldn't want me to'
Its true but i cant let him not do things because i dont want him to.
obviously i want to see him on his birthday it goes without saying, but its a wednesday night and lets be honest all we would do would be to have a meal together, nothing overly special because its mid week.
So i've said he should go and we celebrate at the weekend.
what would you do? I am actually upset about it but i know i'll get over it and i know he will enjoy himself, its kinda a team building thing so will be a laugh.