I have a cousin who is a year older than me and as children/teenagers me, her &my sis were like sisters we were so close. A few yrs ago she had a falling out with her Dad over money (her parents are divorced she lives with her mum who is a lil psycho). Basically she was demanding £1000 a month plus rent for a 3bed house at uni and when my Uncle said he couldn't afford that she stopped talking to him and the rest of the family. Not before demanding money from my grandparents but refusing to go and visit them to collect it. We've all tried to reach out to her in the years since it all happened but have had nothing back apart from one reply to my email saying she did love me and always checked my fb for updates on Immi (she has never meet Immi).

Anyways now my Nanna has died and i kept her up to date with my Nanna's illnesses pre death and told her when my Nanna actually passed away &have let her know all the funeral arrangements but I have heard nothing back from any of my emails. I am soooo angry with her - absolutely fuming. How can she be so disrespectful?? My Nanna looked after her and loved her so much and was desperate to make up with her before she died &my cousin can't even be bothered to reply or send a card. I know she won't come Friday she is too much of a coward.

To make things worse her little sister who is only 6 has worked out she probably isn't going to be there Friday and that she will probably never see her again and is absolutely devastated. This just makes me even more mad. If she wants to me angry at her Dad, stepmum, my grandparents even me &my sis then fine but how can she do that to her little sister? (and a brother she has only seen 3times)

and end rant. Sorry needed to get that out.

Why are some people like this??? It seems they are not happy unless they are making others unhappy!!

Sorry to hear about your Nan Michelle, sending you some hugs

xx

Sorry to hear about your nan hun, and sorry your cousin is being such a pain.... big hugs hun xxxxxxx

Sorry you've got to deal with all of this on top of your nans death x

How selfish of her. So sorry about your nan. xxx

Rememeber you talking about her before with money and being nasty.
Sorry ur having to deal with this as well as your nans funeral xx

so sorry to her about your nan
that is really selfish and pathetic of your cousin and very disrespectful!
xx

i cant understand how people can be so selfish...sorry your having to put up with this stress too tk xxxx

thanks for the kind words ladies. I stil can't believe how hurtful and disrespectful she is being but i don't think i will ever understand the meaning behind all of it.x

Aww Michelle

Sorry to hear about your nan hun. Your cousin sounds like a selfish individual she is going to have to live with it if she doesn't attend your nan's funeral.

Thinking of you hun