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Hi ladies

Well i'm having a seriously bad week. Lost my baby on monday and now it looks like my relationship is over. My OH thinks i'm lazy, selfish and taking him for a mug. He thinks i treat him like a meal ticket cause i don't work. He's going on about how much i'm like his ex who apparently fleeced him and took his money all the time cause he bought her 3 kids clothes etc.....

I can't get a job in what i'm trained to be and i don't take money off him. I pay my own bills with my benefits. If i was to go to work part time it wouldn't be worth it cause of childcare. I have to watch what hours the jobs are cause he leaves at 6.30 in the morning and doesn;t get home till 7.30 sometimes 9 when he goes to the gym after work. I run the whole house and do everything. I look after him and Mia. How am i not contributing and lazy?
Sorry for the rant. Feeling rather sorry for myself.

Dee
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