ok, this could be a long one so good luck!

My Ex and i got over our split and were ok friends up to august. he was a shit basically, cheated, eventually gave me a black eye after yet another row, threatened to do all kinds after we split so i wouldnt take more than he was prepared to give me etc etc.

like i say i ended up being the bigger person and being ok with him, he realised how he had been and was eternally sorry

so he ends up getting a letter from a debt company for a dispute i was in with o2, i apologised and said i would sort it out so he didnt get any more, checked with o2 who confirmed my current address so that was that.

2 more letters and he continued to open them the last one being a reciept for payment. by the 3rd letter i opened i was annoyed and told him so.

well that was it, the old craig came back, he rang me about 8 pm and i told him i would speak to him the following day (giving me chance to find out why he was still getting letters) but it wasnt good enough, i had texts telling me he was coming to my house or go see my parents if i didnt answer my phone to him!!!

i was 7.5 mths PG at this point. well i went mad, called him all the b***** under the sun and told him i never wanted to speak to again.
Job done removed him from face book and he blocked my. BUT my family and some of my friends still have him on theirs. he is constantly commenting on their status and its pissing me off no end!!!


The worst thing being no-one frikkin liked him when we were together!!!

This is what my friend but in reply to him last night!
look at us been all serious! Yes you have craig mate. But better late than never aye! Bless ya. You have changed and shown your a better person after it all. Even put up with my sarcy comments! But thats my nurses humour. Bless ya mate. You out in vil over xmas? Ill av a bow wi ya x x x

FFS He hasnt changed that much if he still thinks he can speak to me the way he used to. my husband doesnt and hasnt ever spoke to me the way this shit head does!!!!
And people think he is a lovely bloke now!!!!


aaaaarrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhh sorry for the rant its just REALLY REALLY annoying me!

arghhhh that would pee me off too!

My ex (still husband) lives (or did last time I cared to ask my mum) around the corner from us. He does my mums final accounts, after I have done all the leg work - and my mum was paying him twice as much as me, even though I was doing hours of work and he just put the figures in the software!

I was already furious that she thinks its ok to be in contact with my ex and having him do their accounts...and even more so that she was paying him a stupid amount of money - WTF for?! She said she felt a bit sorry for him.....oh well that says alot!

its annoying, i feel no loyalty from any one, What is wrong with our families??

are you nearly divorced yet lisa or not bothering yet??

ummmmmmm well I could say nearly cos all it would take is for me to pay £250 and file the papers...but every time I think about it I have something less 'annoying' to spend £250 on!

lol, i know what you mean, he has had enough of your money!!

You are right though - where is their loyalty?!

Lol, my husband is mates with my ex!!!!

They don't really do much matey stuff anymore, but still go on stag weekends and play five a side football together at times.

We don't ever mention his name in our house though - it's just odd x

awww Jo what a prick !!! it must hurt to know that so-called friends/people think the sun shines out of his arse A leopard never changes its spots x

no wonder you're annoyed, i think family especially should sever all ties with him , no matter if they like him or not, you're the priority.

He is an ex for a reason! If you have no reason for YOUR family and friends to remain in contact with him..ie: kids together, than they should simply butt out and stay loyal to you. I say we all dump our current families and form one of our own from Banda! Hugs to you hun. xxx

I can't believe they speak to him after he gave you a black eye! Surely that shows what kind of 'man' he is!