OH was looking for his phone and i was up stairs getting washing. i saw it on the bed on charge so told him. he said throw it down i picked it and went to the top of the stairs and he went any missed calls?

so i pressed the unlock button and already on the phone was the photo section open. and the picture was of a women in a tiny skirt and top, high heels in a toilet. her foot was on the toilet. i cant see her face but her hair is long and brown.

i asked him as i threw the phone to him explain that. he went what. he looked and went oh thats jacobs girlfriend, i met jacobs girlfriend last week she has blonde dreds.

i mentioned this he went no his ex girl friend.


Now i've had so many stories from OH saying that Jacob aint had a GF in 5 years and aint had sex in a year. so that dont ring true.

He's currently sitting in the car on the phone as rowan is asleep in the car and we dont want to move him.

but this just dont add up.

I know something is wrong.

also my dad, brother and grandad are on there way down to ours as we are away for the weekend.

i want to rip his throat out!

Has he done anything else to make you feel suspicicous or is it just the photo?

Totally can understand why your angry!

has he gave you any reason in past to doubt him?

Now i think if he was hiding something from you, he wouldnt have let you get his fone? blokes normally keep it very close to them for obvious reason

how has he been with you in general?

I would also make it very clear that you dont like pictures like that being sent to his fone, even if it is his ex's GF its still very strange

(( hugs )) as i imagine you are pretty cut up about it right now x

Well he's just come in shown me the photo.

It's my cousins wife.

He took the photo on his phone and sent it to a friend who said he got with someone from called lisa whilst he was in guildford when she was there. he's just shown me her facebook and that same picture that is on his phone is on the facebook page.

i asked why did he say it was jacobs ex he said he didnt look at it properly

phew!

I agree if he was hiding anything he wouldnt have ased u to go into his phone and check for missed calls they would keep it close and wouldnt let u go in to it xx
i still dont understand why he has it on his fone? did he take it or some1 send it? But i think its innocent by the sounds of it xx

i still feel upset though.

just being silly i guess

Most women would feel upset..

i mean imagine if it were over way round, and you had a pic of some guy on your phone, how do you think he would react

he obviously knows your upset, is why he is explaining himself, so its a start x

its normal to feel upset hun! men can be so bloody stupid at times he shud have looked at it properly and been able to explain it to u rather than jst sayin it was his mates ex
glad its all ok tho