when im pregnant with my 2nd baby ive decided that i want a suprise regarding the sex, but if it was to be twins i dont know what I'd do! what would you ladies do in that position? i know its very random for a sunday morning but twins are due as my dads mum is a twin and my mums uncles r twins also my OH has twins in his family too x

I didn't know the sex of any if my 3 babies, I never for one minute considered finding out. I love that moment when the hold the baby up to show you what you have!

Twins- can't see it makes much difference. You'd just buy neutral stuff and then go and buy your pink or blue when they were here. I did ellies room very neutral with stuff from Next and as soon as she was born it kinda turned in to a girly room!

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thats how i saw it but then i thought usually twins are early and with having louis aswel i may not have time to go and buy everything quick enough ....id love to have a suprise even though im 95% sure itd be another boy .

also question for you did you bond with your bump not knowing what sex it was? i mean i dont want to call the baby 'it' lol ..jeez i think i over think things lol xxx

I would like to think that next time i could keep it a surprise but i know what im like!
My mum is a twin, my dad was a twin and lukes mam is a twin too!

so it should be you children who getg the twins then bless them xx

Hehe yes of course I bonded with bump! We called it elmo and even told our parents that if it was a boy he'd be elmo lol.

I had a girl first and then a boy and hey I felt like I was the dogs bollocks having one of each, you'd have thought I was the first in the world to acheive this! Then my 3rd was a girl. But I honestly believe that when they hold that baby up and you see what sex is it, you don't give a toss because that bundle is the only baby in the world that you want!

As soon as mine were born all my family were out buying pink/blue anyway. With ellie she was 6 months before I could buy her pink as she had tons bought for her.

i'm too impatient i needed to know, i was panicked about twins as my dads side of the family had a lot of twins in it, i could never have coped!

I started out all, I dont want to know, but as time went on curiosity got the better of me and when the sonographer asked me if I wanted to no I just couldn't say no.

My friend has recently had twins and she didn't find out the sex, she ended up having twin girls, who might I add are absolutely scrumptious xx

I was the same i said all the way up to the scan i dont wanna know bt then i panicked when i couldnt find nice neutral clothes and wanted to be organised being our first i found out altho when she was doing the scan you could see his tod and she said well you woulda known anyway it was so clear lo lxx

Must admit the neutral clothes are a bit boring. In m&s I really struggled as it was all pink or blue!

i found out with my first and third ,, it wasnt an option with my second but would have loved to have found out

im way too impatient for the suprise and also im a preperation freak ! i had to know so i could have everything prepared the way i wanted it lol x

I didn't find out with Evan and was so glad I didn't the surprise was great especially cos all my family were convinced he was a girl
If I was to fall preg again I wudnt want to kno and the Same if it was twins I wudnt want to kno the sec either! Evan was only in his neutral clothes for few days cos most of the gifts I got were boys clothes and cos he was so small we had to buy early baby clothes when we got home

I was way too impatient, I had to know! I'll be finding out at 16 weeks with this one because the suspense is killing me x

i loved not knowing, and i don't think twins would make any difference. everyone thought i was having a boy so it was great when i had a girl
and the neutral stuff i bought was really lovely, i just bought a bit too much of it

with my 1st and 3rd i found out. with my 2nd they couldnt see because she had the legs crossed. and the suspense killed me right till the minute i went into labour and i just didnt care! then after id been through all that pain it didnt even cross my mind to know the sex! my 1st question was is my baby ok! it took me about 3mins of staring at 'it' to remember i didnt even know if i had a pink or another blue xx

i wud love to think that i wudnt find out but i dont think that i cud stand it!!! I loved how i said "him" to my bump and cud buy blue clothes!! x

im like you aim but i really hope i say no, but i know what im like .last time i didnt hesitate in sayin that i wanted to know but next time i really hope they say they cant tel me so i have no choice x

i didnt find out with my 1st, then i found out with my second and regretted it streight away and wish id have waited for the surprise. i always called leo he, simply because i was so convinced he was a boy anyway, i was right
it is such a lovley surprise, if i ever have anymore id definatley not find out, even if its twins lol x

I don' t think I could NOT find out... I'm too nosey for starters and it's quite common practice in Cyprus to find out... you get scanned every 3 weeks and you would have to tell them I DONT WANT TO KNOW every time or they would tell you.

with Tyler it was pretty obvious anyway what he was

also they don't really DO neutral clothes in Cyprus!

Jade i was the same with Tayla-Rose everytime we went for a scan they didnt even ask if we already knew or wanted to know so would of found out anyway! Once the doc gave me a heart attack and said 'oh he is....' i said did u just say 'he' and he said 'oh no no sorry she!' phew!

haha my doctor kept saying "you know the sex right" I'd be like erm yeh but can you just tell me again in case it's wrong lol
my friend thought she was having a boy up until about 25 weeks when they suddenly said oh no actually it's a girl so I was a bit paranoid!

omg lol! Actually i didnt start buying pink till about 25weeks when we went back to England. I can imagine having another baby and just being one, then thinking ok one last baby and then it being twins lol!

lol Id quite ilke twins actually well I say that now but can you imagine actualyl dealing with them... hmmm maybe not!