Confusing indeed
I'm sure my philosophies on the matter won't help so shan't ramble, but needless to say I think if things can work out, he can be honest and work at things and the trust earned back then that's grand - and if not then I hope it's with a line drawn under / confirmation that at least it was the only way forward (rather than left hanging, "what if's" etc. ...if that makes sense. Either way I hope the confusion subsides soon for you! Been thinking of you.
Take care xxx
P.s. tell me about it... a matter of days left... (*fingers and toes out*) - oh my life
19 days to due date?! I'd go on about how I'm very worried and can't get my head around it but once I start I may not stop