this might sound so silly but im scared to live in my house anymore we had our oil nicked other week and its really scared me! i had really bad time a few months befor i met OH and made me a really nervey person and now this has happened im scared at night to the stage i feel sick with worrie that someone will break in or even knock at the door!
we have no neighbours or anythin so its scary as if somethin happens no one will hear us
we are lookin for somewhere to move anyways but im so scared incase somethin happens whilst still here

Awww it's understandable you feel this way.

Do all you can to feel safe in the meantime, make sure you close your curtains at night before it gets dark, etc. You don't want people seeing in.

Hope you manage to move soon xx

Hey char!

Hope you're ok?

I think lots of ladies feel like that at times, so you're not alone to get a bit scared. Just try not to worry.Are you home alone? Maybe you could phone a friend and have a chat then you wouldn't feel so alone!

Sending hugs x

i feel like alone as ians so zonked on his meds hes about as much use as a choc tea pot bless him!

hopefuly somewhere will pop up soon

Oh Hun Im sure you Will feel better once the weather gets better too. Good luck with the house hunting x

aww hun you are having such a rough time i feel like this everytime marc is on nights.

i would just make sure all the doors and windows are locked before it gets dark i do mine as soon as marc leaves for work at 6pm then ensure you close the curtains early.

Another thing i do when he is on nights is pop the bedside light on when i put gracie to bed so it looks like there is someone upstairs and down. These all help me to feel a little bit more secure x

hope you find somewhere soon hun x

i hope you get a new house soon hun xx