well rich has been telling me about what he is going to be doing with the baby when he/she arrives.
he is going to help bath the baby, dress the baby and give the baby a bottle, hes really looking forward to that, but he will not be changing any nappies (dont blame him on that one) lol

anyway i realised that i might be bf so, no bottles for a while

so i had to sit in the car stuck in traffic and explain breast feeding.. i'm sure i was more red than he was and his face was excellent when i told him that mommy would be breast feeding,
but he then asked "well how does the baby do that?" so without thinking i said the baby will suck on my mommy's breasts (lack of sleep is effecting me lol) OMG his face was a picture, he kind of screwed his mouth and eyes up and then just stared at my breast all the way home.

i just know there are more questions in that little brain of his and just waiting for them to come...

so come on how would you guys explain to your lo's about the birds and the bees , because for me its coming very soon

errrm poor you...never had any of them questions yet...am dreading the time when i do!!
leo never really asked about bfing he just accepted it, even with other people...but one of his classmates came up to me when i was giving ollie a bottle of ebm asking 'why isnt your baby drinking milk from your boobies' xx

lol oh crikey, well rich has never seen anyone bf, as sil milk never came in so she couldnt but oh crumbs i'm going to have fun, will have to get russ to talk to him, although russ is exctied too, apparently it means he will see my boobs hes not seen them for a while. men ...

lmao...just explain to him that mummies have boobies to feed babies, just like cows have udders to feed there babies, just chat about it like its the most natural thing in the world if you dont let it make you feel uncomfortable then he wont either x

you talking about russ there lol

i'm going to talk to rich a bit more later you got all this to come with your boys lol

Lol i was lucky enough to not need the "talk" while i was young i figured it out myself

My son is 10 and when we told him we were trying for a baby he said "oh so does that mean you have to 'do it' every day" lol I was quite surprised as I assumed he knew nothing about sex etc.. but he knows how it all happens. Havent asked him yet exactly what the full extent of his knowledge is.

aww nutty, its kind of, part of them being an adult isnt, growing up a bit too quick.

i dont know if its because hes so innocent, they not talked about it at school or his learning difficulties, but rich doesnt have a clue,
but we do have to start talking to him about his body changing though and soon

Gosh so sorry you're at this stage, it's gets worse.
A couple of years ago whilst stuck in traffic there was an ad on the radio about clamydia. My the 12 year old boy asked what it was. I went on to tell him about other stds and condoms (and dirty women. He was so embarrassed and kept telling me to pack it in. Lol. If we hadn't been so far from home I know he'd have got out of the car. I just think you need to be honest but at a level they understand.