oh has an older son who is meant to stay with us 3 nights a week but its always more like this week he has been at our house since wed after school was supposed to go back to his mums yest but she asked if we cud keep him then again today she was out and wudnt get home til late and oh had stuff to do tonight so cudnt drop him off late and she refuses to pick him up
so he goes out to play all fine he has jst came in slammed every door woke evan up who is screaming, i didnt want to go get evan cos that wud be him up so left him to see if he wud settle himself he did but as soon as he did ohs son comes out his room again slams door goes in bathroom slams that door evan awake again jst starting to settle again and his pals come to door so dog is now barking and evan is screaming i know im gonna have to go upstair and ill never get him back down in cot
im absolutely raging same thing happened last night he came in and 5 min later his pals came to door so he went out then came in cos to cold and again his pals came to door ive already spoke to his pals and told them not to come to door after 8pm they all have mobiles so if they want him to come out they can txt him
im absolutely ragin he not even meant to be here tonight,i know teenage boys r what they are but he knows evan is in bed and is the lightest sleeper on he planet

OMG i would be bloody raging too. What does your OH think of this?? Sounds like the boy is taking the p!ss. I would be having words with your OH, that is just not on xx

he didnt say anything bout the doors bein slammed but wen his pals came to door oh asked why again his pals were comin to door minutes after he comes in and he jst saidi dont know (which is his answer to everything) then oh said to him to tell them to stop coming to door as they keep wakin evan then he said evan been screamin for ages now (clearly a dig at me but bull shit it was 5 min each time except the last time)
but if i say anything to oh he will either tell me to tell of his son or make out i am just picking on his son and clearly dont want him here or he wud say well what do u want me to do about it
ive seriously been coming closer and closer to cracking up and i jst feel i cant cope any more ive really had enough

its difficult when there are stepkids, you dont know whether you should discipline them or not for fear of upsetting the OH. Dont take it to heart but i would defo consider having a word with the 0H, its your home too x

id be inclined to slap his lugs!