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i dont know if i want to cry or explode. Me and the OH just had a heated argument - it started because he wanted his 10 year old to have a "play" on his laptop ( which i always use). I wasnt using it but had a few pages open. I asked why he should play on it (his boy has downs syndrome) when he had a box full of toys plus Cerys's to play with. My mum was in the room at the time keeping Cerys occupied. Anyway a few heated word were passed back and forth. He said i was selfish etc etc. Right at the very end he said "well at least i was brought up properly" IN FRONT OF MY MUM !!!

Well you could've cut the air with a knife, i was so shocked i had to go outside. My heart was racing. i shouted back "how dare you say that in front of my mother" my mum went very quiet. Me and mum went through a hell of alot when i was a child and he knows my mum had a hard time. Even though i think he said it in the heat of the moment, he has crossed a line in my book. i would NEVER speak to him or anyone like that in front of their friends, let alone parents. His mum thinks the su shines out of his arse. My mum then left and didnt even look at him. i told him that was disgusting and he blamed me for being a selfish cow and making him angry enough to said that !!!

We've been having a few issues lately but i dont see how i can move on from this. I havent been myself for a few days, tired, not eating properly, plus Cerys has been ill.

Sorry just had to vent x