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hi girls!!!

with the wedding in under 3months i emailed my dad's ex wife to see if my lil half brother(he's 9 now!) could come...she emailed me back saying theirs had been a traumatic split and she didn't want to ruin my day and grant was only allowed supervised access with his dad, so being cautious and cynical i emailed asking if the traumatic split was anything to do with the kids, hitting, abuse etc(when i was little my dad hit us and treated us very badly)

well lastnight while in chat i got a reply

my dad never sexually abused the kids...but he was arrested and found guilty of having indecent images of children on his computer and was put on the sex offenders register for 5yrs

now this man has had access to my two children, my 3nieces and 2 nephews!!!!!

at some of the ladies suggestions i decided to call up the police to see if i could confirm this was true...wouldn't be fair to just take her word on it, they called us back this morning and said that data protection acts make it impossible to give details but he's not on the list ANYMORE and then went on to ask if he will be having any unsupervised visits with the kids anytime soon, so we said yes and were told to seriously reconsider it as it's not a good idea...then went on to say if we ask him outright and he's cagey there is our answer...so it seems the guy was unofficially telling us that yes, my dad is indeed a paedophile!!!

so it's been a long day trying to get someone to outright give us a 'yes, he did it' so we can confront him, but no deal yet...

so i thought i was done with paedophiles....apparently not and i was an idiot to trust anyone