I know a girl who has two kids to two different dads and she makes out on fb that shes the doting mum and loves her babies so much. but Im friends with her sister and I know to almost the full extent what shes actually like and its had me in tears listening to some of the things shes done.

her first girl is 6ish now and some of the things she has said to this girl is just awful. she stays with my friend every weekend and she also has to wash her clothes because her mum never does, she buys her new clothes because her mum never does. the little girl says things to my friend like "I wish you were my mummy" and she once phoned her mum to ask if she could come home a night earlier because she missed her she shouted down the phone "no just *$%£ off will you" and hung up on her

her youngest is just a few months older than hannah but up until he was active he used to sit in his chair while she sat on fb. a few weeks ago their other sister had arranged to go up and take their kids to softplay and when she went up this girl and her son were still in bed at 2 oclock in the afternoon and he sister had to get her son up to give him his first meal of the day and get him washed and dressed

shes been going out with this guy for 8 weeks. they were engaged and she had a huge tattoo of his name up her arm by 5 weeks and has just announced on fb shes 3 weeks pregnant. today shes announced they have split up and shes on her own again.
There is nothing wrong with having kids to different dads but it seems to me like she meets someone and in that honeymoon period she thinks having a baby to them seems like the best idea.
it worries me to think what that third baby is going to endure when he/she is born.
I think hvs and other people have been involved but the doctors having known what shes been through took her coil out to allow this to happen. I guess he cant force her to keep it in but Im wondering if he actually tried to convince her not to have it removed.

Those poor poor children. It bought a tear to my eye just reading that. Thank goodness your friend is looking out for them. Oh it just so sad

Oh thats so sad

Those poor kids. It pisses me off so much when people feel they need to have a child with whoever they happen to be shagging that month!!! And the to neglect the after

exactly. its annoying to see all the congrats comments on fb from people who think shes a great mum.

that's so sad, although sometimes I think people like her are just insecure and get into relationships quickly to have some stability. It's just a shame there's kids involved.

its horrible =o( i just heard of a little boy age 10 going into care because he mum 'can't handle him' yet she has twins to another man and can handle them just fine. Apparently she makes the 10 yr old go to bed at 6 same as the twins and she never does anything with him. Life so isn't nice for quite a lot of kids out there.
x

that is awful, those poor little kids

why haven't SS been involved? there seem to be way too many kids out there going through hell

I think they may have been at some point I really dont know. thing is while a new man is on the scene she goes into a 'high' state and probably treats her kids really well. and some of her best friends dont know what goes on. its only because its her sister telling me that I know the full story. I bet if I were to tell one of her friends they would be shocked.

another baby isnt what she needs right now she needs help and support. I bet she would make a really good mum if she had that. it seems as if family support isnt enough for her either some people are just like that though. cant function without a man.

I feel sorry for the kiddies it just not fair on them xx

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that is awful, those poor little kids

why haven't SS been involved? there seem to be way too many kids out there going through hell

I really couldnt agree more. Everytime I look at the news, there is more horror going on in the world. What happened to kids just being kids and having childhoods? x

That has made me upset they were still in bed at 2pm?

Those poor kids

Perhaps a quick phone call to childrens services might be in order. If anything..may give her a wake up call! xxx