I dont know if anyone remembers my post a while ago that about my friend who found out she was pregnant, went for a scan and they discovered it was a molar pregnancy? Well she thought she was 12 weeks gone (hence the scan) she hadnt told her bf at that point tho. So at the scan they kept her in and she was sent for surgery to remove it. (this was n august)
When she got out of hosp, her bf TEXT her and said it was over what an arsehole!
Any way...they got back together after he apoligesed etc, she has been away on holiday and just got on with life really, as when she rang the docs a few weeks after the op they said no news is good news and if you havnt heard from the hospital by now you will have the all clear.
Well she recieved a letter from the hosp last week saying that the cancer has spread and she need to go in to have chemo If the chemo doesnt work she will have to have a hysterectomy Shes 24.
I think she is really beating herself up more over it as she has had 2 abortions and a miscarriage too.
Im so angry with the hospital to you write a her a letter and book her appiotment without even talking to her, she had to google most of it as it wasnt even explained. Also why has it taken then so long!?
She has kinda said a few things too that hurt, about why should i of got pregnant once and it all turns out ok but she had to go through all this....i understand where shes coming from but its not my fault, now i feel guilty when i talk about Tayla....its really awkward.
Sorry to go on so long x

oh God Terri that's so sad poor thing

I think she must just be a bit upset and taking things out on you I wouldn't take it to heart.

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Ah that is awful x

thats awful im so sorry for your friend x

I know Jade ive tried not to let it get to me, i know she must be really hurting right now (although shes the type that shows no emotions) It does make things awkward between us just due to the fact that i have Tayla really. But ill try and support her however i can, fingers crossed the chemo works

Your poor friend :-(

I don't really know anything about the condition she has - but will there be the option for her to save her eggs so in future someone could hatch them for her?

Lisa i hadnt even thought about that, i will see if i can find any info about it on google, thank u x

Im so sorry for your friend, I really hope that it all works out for her.

Its not your fault that you have got Tayla. Im not sure if you remember, but my best mate lost her baby boy at 24 weeks in April? Well, she hasnt seen me since. We havent spoken or anything (apart from about 3 texts). She says she cant face me.

I find it pretty upsetting as she hasnt seen me at all in this pregnancy, and I have no idea where our friendship will go from here, but I (just like you) cant feel guilty for having something so precious.

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Aw Terri that's so sad

Oh no your poor friend, she's obviously hurting right now, I wouldn't have thought she mention it to make things difficult for you both.
I really hope the chemotherapy works!

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