Honestly i cant wait til tommorrow is over. Had my dad on phone the other night whinging about the time of the service cos he has to get up early to come over and asking if i have a specific time for the christening so he can miss the service and just attend the christening itself. When I said no the christening is performed in the church service itself he humphed about getting up early and how last time he went to one it was its own service

Er tough shit. A) Its a small parish church and cant cater to everyone B) Its his ONLY grandchild getting christened, Id walk through fire for something like that and C) Eve if i had a specific time how rude is missing the main service and wandering in part way through

Then my auntie ring today to say she is coming and so is my cousin and her kids but its ok cos they managed to get themselves added onto my table. FFS I said in the invitation book your own table. Id booked a special table for grandparents and godparents and when my mum asked about our family friends Andy and Linda coming and iv known them since i was like 4 I said could she ask them to book a diff table so they were part of the day but not the main table. How hard is it to work out, likea top table at a wedding its meant to be for the people who are giving the most to the day. So I didnt say anything cos it would have been rude to say to my auntie actually no you cant join us go sit somewhere else butnow my mums gonna wonder why its different strokes for different folks. I hate it when ppl just assume stuff and im left stuck in the middle.

FFS, mood im in at the mo one person dicks with me tommorrow and they are getting ripped a new one. Its C's big day and im really not in the mood for this. Neils already fretting about money cos half the people coming havent paid back their deposits we paid for the table. I knew i shud have just gone to church with parents and godparents and screw the rest. How much fun is 3 sets of family! 3 times the f*cking torture if you ask me

Arrggghhh sounds like you're organising a wedding!!! I really hope everyone behaves for you tomorrow hun xxx

How the hell did they manage to get added to your table? Surely if you've paid the deposit for the right amount of people then that should be it! FOr all the restaurant know she could be some crazy salker!

yeah i agree ,, the resteraunt should never have added to your table without your consent x x

I dont know but im really annoyed about it, though im more angry at my dad. Im just going to stick close to neil and c tommorrow and possibly bring a gag to put on if anyone starts

Bloody hell - you're being tested at the moment i would be going friggin ape shit as well, i dont blame you x

Flip its not much to expect someone to attend a church service - theyre about 90 mins fgs!

I understand the table adding thing, didnt you have to book everyone's tables? Really hope you get the money back, im sure you will.

Did your aunt know that she should have booked seperate table? Maybe she thought you had to just ring and confirm you were attending with restraunt, maybe she didnt understand to get a seperate table, just thought it was one big table/booking. Id be pissed too regardless. Will look strange to your mum but hopefully if you explain she'l understand the position you were put in.

Try and enjoy C' s day . Its a lovely family day - just a pity familys arent always so lovely

Just remember this day is all about your gorgeous little chicken and you and Neil, so let everyone else get on with it and just enjoy your little family x

Im gonna chat to my mum quietly tommorrow and explain im annoyed but it was done without me and im not snubbing andy and linda by havin diff rules. TBH i think she so excited about the fact shes ringing the service in she wont care (shes been learnig to ring the church bells so she can do it just for C and is well excited).

As for my dad he can get up or not get up. He will miss out. If i know my step mum shes probably kickd his ass for being stupid, i do like that woman.

Neil will probably know what is owed for the meals to the penny so im gonna let him worry about it, hes gonna take a pen and paper to work it out, it sounds tight but with me off sick right now and 12.50 a head we are having to be straight up with folks abot paying up if they want to join us

Im gonna get some photos of my C Fish tommorrow and upload them tommorrow evening, i finger dried her hair with leave in conditioner tonight anf its gone all curly so hoping it stays like that

it's easier said than done but the day is all about C, no matter how many people piss you off ignore them and you enjoy your special day with her.

Do not let anyone take away from this day you have planned for months! Let them figure it out on their own..and if your dad can't show up..it is totally his loss as he will have to live with the guilt forever. Make this day all about C and you and Neil! No one else matters! xxx

Thats basically what i said to neil tonight, its Cs big day and ppl dont lik it then they can feck off. I have no prob telling ppl to feck off right now