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PostSubject: my heart shattered that little bit more today   my heart shattered that little bit more today - Page 2 EmptyThu Dec 16, 2010 6:40 am

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hey girls

well today i finally gave in to the inevitable...i took lily-ann to an appointment to be fitted for a wheelchair...it feels like i've just given up any hope of her ever walking

i sat there, watching her all happy and smiley in the tester chair, and i think it really hit me just how hard it's going to be for her, going through life, she's never going to have any of the 'firsts' like a normal little girl...she'll never know such wonderful feelings like, falling in love, getting marries, carrying a baby and being a mummy....

i literally felt my heart breaking for my happy little angel, she deals with so much, and from now on(well in 4weeks) will be confined to a chair with people giving her 'those looks' and she's just so accepting of it

sorry girls...feeling really sad and emotional tonight Sad
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you guys are the most amazingly lovely understanding women ever

thanks so much for all of your lovely words...tbh most days i don't feel worthy of my two, i feel like a crap mummy, especially to lily-ann, so i thankyou all so much!
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hey u can pack that up straight away u are a FANTASTIC MUMMY and dont ever feel any different (easier said than done sometimes i know) but u know we are all here 4 u any time 2 beautiful babies have a beatiful mummy and daddy who love them both so very much any1 can c that XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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PostSubject: Re: my heart shattered that little bit more today   my heart shattered that little bit more today - Page 2 EmptyThu Dec 16, 2010 11:13 am

Hun she may have a disability but she is still your beautiful little girl that spends most of the time smileing away and you have not failed or given up by getting a chair you are helping her be more comfortable when you go out.

If people want to look let them because they are looking at a wonderful family and gorgeous little lady.

YOU are strong and wonderful dealing with everything in your stride I for one admire you and look up to you xxxxxxxxxxx

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She is a brilliant star sent to you and to all of us to show us how even odds are stacked against us, if she can overcome them...so can we! I so love this little girl and I have never had a chance to meet her in person. She had changed my life I assure you! She has surpassed so many milestones on her own, and will continue to do so. Look at her getting a chair as being more freedom for her..to go more places and see more things! Sending you all giant hugs and kisses! xxxx
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Kenty I can't begin to imagine how hard this is for you and your family but Lily-ann is very obviously a very happy little girl, she always looks happy and you have to remember that she doesn't know any different, she isn't going to grow up thinking "I wish I could do this or do that" because she will be able to do her own things in her own way. She is making such huge progress being able to stand almost by herself is an achievement that the doctors probably told you she wouldnt do but a little bit of encouragement and some hard work shows anything is possible.
She isn't going to have a poorer quality of life because of this as you and Sam are making sure she is happy and healthy and very much loved and that is clear for everyone to see. massive hugs to you all.
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Im so sorry hun i have no idea what you are feeling x
You and sam are amazing parents, Whenever i see pics of lily-ann she is always so happy and smilie You are doing such a fab job xx
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i also cant say anything that the others havent said. u have a happy wee soul there. loads of hugs xx
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aww hun Sad i really dont know what to say hun. But she is such a lovely little girl who loves you guys lots! you guys are great parents and are doing really well! x
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I think the others have said it all, you truly are an amazing and special little family my heart shattered that little bit more today - Page 2 466645 my heart shattered that little bit more today - Page 2 466645 xxxxxxxxxx
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Thanks so much you guys!

i do know that she's never going to think 'what if...' but i'm always going to be doing that for her.

i am feeling much better about the wheelchair today...i don't like it...but she seems to so i'm hapy to do whatever it takes to make her more comfortable/happy

jen...after an hour in the car with her whining all the way...i am ready to adopt her out if you're interested Laughing Laughing
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