that knobhead of an ex took leo to the circus last night, just forund out he went with HER i am pissed off beyonde beliefe, we agreed if we decided to date again, we wouldnt introduce them to the kids at least for a while so not to mess with their heads...but she is just a friend aparentley...i know i cant controll it, but she is the reason we split and i made it clear i want her no where near my two all i keep getting is 'she's a frind, you take them out with friends dont you' with his smug little grin. ahhhh im so angry

I would be pissed off too!
You are right about not introducing them to the kids for a while x

Omfg gem what a twat!
I'd be pissed off too, I can't believe he's done it tbh, I'd definatly be finding out where she lives and having a word with her oh. Playing happy f u cking families is bang out of order and she's a big fat ugly s l u t!

im unbelievebly angry...would love to know where she told her oh she was going cos she took her kids too. i hate him more than anything...obvs i wont show it in front of the kids but i really do hate him, i know its a strong word i need to find out who she is now, i will i dont care what it takes x

Omg i would fuming too! Is he still with her oh then?!
This isnt fair on the kids either they must be very confused

What a nob! Did he think you wouldn't find out?
Stay calm and don't let tbe kids know it's a problem. Then give him a big kick in the balls when you see him for going against what you wanted!

aparentley theryre juist friends...obvs its normal to text freinds saying i love you, im just acting normal to leo, not letting him know anything is wrong because i dont want to mess with his head, so just asking what he did being all excited for him ect
thing is i wouldnt mind if he was in reletaionship and he introduced them to the kids if he knew things were going to be serious...its just the fact its her who still has a oh, must be messing with her kids heads too, how can i get serious if she's in a relationship
plus every now and again he tries it on with me when he's here ...ffs what is wrong with him!!!!!

She probably just said Shea taking the kids with a friend from work. No reason for suspicion there really. But still I'm fuming for you!

When tommys dad and I split up (he was cheating on me with a girl from work) he had pretty much moved her into my home within 3 days of me leaving! And after about 2 months tommy came home to me from seeing his dad and said ' mum, Sarah was sleeping in your bed and I saw her bra'
Turns out ex had let tommy get in the bed with them when they woke up. I was soooooooooooooooooo angry I nearly ripped there heads of.

omfg kell thats discusting x

hun thats terrible, he sounds like he wants his cake and eat it where he can, the ladies are right keep calm for the kids.

some men, nowt you can do with them

Tell you what gemz he wouldn't have had that smug smile on his face for very long with me around. Think I'd have caved his smug head in! That is simply disgusting behaviour. If he's with the woman then he needs to be honest and if he isn't and is just messing around with her then she should not be introduced to the kids full stop! I would kill Dave if he did that, no way I could keep my cool I'm afraid. I've told him she is not to meet anyone unless they're in a committed relationship, and even then he needs to think long and hard about whether realistically this person is going to be significant in his life for a considerable amount of time. He only has her 2 nights a week so shouldn't be hard!!! I have said the same and it'll mean that I can only meet someone on nights when she isn't here so that's 5 days a week out the window so he has it much easier than I do.

He Gemz is what I call a complete Fcuktard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

that is bang out of order - stupid twat !!!! I would've punched his face in (not in front of kids obv) god no wonder you're mad, my blood would be boiling. You deffo need to find out more about her and tell her oh. dumb ass stupid trollop b i t c h dont let the dumb f u c k twat get to you xx

Gemz

I would be proper raging too he can just introduce random people into the kids lives especially when you have asked him not too. I wonder how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot and their was another man spending time with his kids think his attitude would be completely different.

Omg what an asshole.

I'm probably gonna sound awful here but i'd stop him taking the kids alone as you cant trust him. Just let him visit them with you there. And defenitely find out who she is and send me round plz xx

OMG, I would be seething!

I would have to find out where they live and speak to her OH. The poor bloke probably has no idea that all of this is happening.

What a tosser!

x

That is so disgusting and disrespectful! Not only toyou but the boys too! WHat he does in his own time is his business but to ivolve Leo is totally not fair x

Right Banda Ladies were on the case..... Private investigation Forum now open for business.....

You need her name and where she lives hun and go fcuk up her double edged world then screw her husband just to fcuk her over that extra bit!!....I would hunt her down if it killed me

what a prick ex is being...
I dont think you can stop him seeing them legally unless they are in danger..

Ugh! The other woman should grow a brain too. There is a code of conduct for introducing the new person in the kids lives. I don't care if it was the circus..a happy meal at mcdonalds...you just don't do it! Kids are still shell shocked from the break up..and out of sheer respect for them..keep the home wrecking tarts away! I would call her too and tell her to stay away from your children until THEY are ready to receive her!