I really want to lose some weight I know exactly how to do it but its getting the motivation to get on with it!!!! I have so many things coming up, not just the Brum night out but 2 weddings in September!! How do I kick myself up the ass!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!

hmm never been in that situation, but without sounding rude - go and look in the mirror naked every day and look at the bits you don't like - surely that will make you wanna get rid of it?!

Do you want to look like this????



That would be my motivation !!!!

Lisa wrote:

hmm never been in that situation, but without sounding rude - go and look in the mirror naked every day and look at the bits you don't like - surely that will make you wanna get rid of it?!

ha ha ha cheers I think Lisa wish I'd never been in that situation God maybe I will actually do it bleurgh!!!!!! thats me yelling at myself!!!!

ha ha ha Leah thats almost like me

lol, I should too - maybe I'd eat more then!

so dont you eat much? Silly question I just assumed you had a fast metabolism?!!! Can I borrow your body in Brum x

she hardly sleeps either

im the same but ive started my diet this week again. determined to lose at least half a stone if not more by brum.

i think taking photos of ureself helps.i alwys think of wat i used ti be like and it makes me motiovated to do it again! wat i wud give to be back in my pre pregnancy jeans! x

I am the same Helz, i hate my middle but just can't get motivated to shift it x

helz456 wrote:

so dont you eat much? Silly question I just assumed you had a fast metabolism?!!! Can I borrow your body in Brum x

I eat a normal persons amount - possibly more - but yeh I have a fast metabolism so need to eat even more to gain weight, which I find really hard to eat when im not hungry!
My mum was skinny like me, it runs in the family, but I HATE it!

MiniMeg wrote:

she hardly sleeps either

LOL I get 7 hours a night the majority of the nights, I might go to bed late at 2am but I dont get up til 9am!

yeah I guess so Amy I am going to try really hard I will look gooooooooooooooorgeous just like the rest of you lol

ok what about this method (it worked for my friend in college, I told her regularly that her breathe was smelly and her clothes whiffed ... she gave up smoking quite quickly, she had asked me to tell her btw!) ... so get someone to repeat what you moan about - so if you moan that your thighs are too big - get your OH to say it all the time ... he might end up dead, but hey if you get your thing's how you want then its worth it!

hmmm I'm not sure I could stick that its so much more personal than smoking My oh would never do that either, he always tells me he loves me whatever size I am. I think the mirror is the best way to go for me, thanks for your suggestions though Lisa, I could still borrow your body much easier!!!!

hah you wouldnt want it I promise you!

would paying for weight watchers or something like that help?

I was the same, had no motivation but when I signed up for WW online and the money came out my account I didn't wanna waste it so actually stuck to it. I lost half a stone before my Nan died and then I stopped and now Im pg so can't do it... but it helped me to start x

I went for a walk around the mill yesterday to clear me head and calm down after ev erything....

anyways It made me think of you I walked it twice, was good!! must meet up and do it more often! xx

I cant be bothered either im not happy i wouldnt say i was fat but i feel flabby in places so i need to tone up x
I do have an exercise but i really cant be assed to get on it

Do you eat heathly helz? ru thinking of dieting or excerising?xx

Thanks girls!! I am actually at Weight Watchers at the mo but havent been for the last 3 weeks because Rich has been on nights and my class is on till 7pm and he leaves before that! I think I need more motivation with the exercise really as I dont do anything at the moment!! I eat really healthily even when I'm not going to my WW class, which I will be going back to next week!!!! So really I just need to get my trainers on and do some exercise!!! Right I'm gonna do it!!! xxx

Get married (again) hun!

Or go try on corsetted wedding dresses

I'm getting married in September and that was a good motivation for me but even more so when I was strapped into those dresses and the excess flab was squeezed and squashed where I didn't want it

My OH goes to slimming world and I am following the same diet as he is. We have both lost just over 1 1/2 stone in 10 weeks and although it's getting harder it is still going down. It's a great motivation when you are both on the diet. I tried to diet before xmas but Paul wasn't 'ready' and he kept cocking up my diet by getting takeaways and treats and of course I have very little will power It's like a little competition now who loses most each week and once you see those pounds start to come off it's a great motivator to keep going.

Failing that - post your weight on FB every week with how much you have lost/gained and shame yourself into it

xx

ha ha ha Rich might have something to say about it if I tell him I'm getting married again lol You are right though, when I married him I was at my slimmest ever!!!

Erm no way will I post my weight on FB!!! Yes I could say how much I've lost and hopefully not gained I just need a kick up the bum, who wants to do it??????

Lose that weight hun! No excuses!

Seriously though, I know its hard. Im trying to get rid of my Lily weight at the moment. I got a treadmill off Ebay and do a power walk on it every day. I also downloaded the Myfitnesspal app on my facebook (thanks to Debs) which is brilliant for telling you what calories you need, what you are eating, etc.

x

thanks for the slap Laura I will do it I will I will I will!!!!!!!!!!!

i need the motivation too, i've been going to the gym once a week ... but then coming home havin a couple o beers and s bag o doritos.... tis just not working lol
x

ha ha ha Niccsy hmmm wonder why?????

Laura how much did you pay for the treadmill? I would love one!