Age : 40 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
Subject: Would you let you oh plan Mon Apr 18, 2011 9:37 pm
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If you were to do it again (renewal) or for the first time would you let your oh take control of your wedding plans?
I've been watching 'dont tell the bride' on bbc3 where they give a couple 12k and three weeks to plan a wedding but the catch is the bride has no input at all she's not even allowed to be in contact while the man makes the arrangments!
I keep thinking I'd quite enjoy it! I don't have any real wants when I get married, I have a place I'd like to have it maybe but I'm ok not to be there, I've not really dreamed about it all from a young age. I don't even know what sort of dress or colour I would want. I reckon my oh would pull off a good wedding that I would really enjoy! I think he'd choose a lovely dress for me as he always seems to do well when he gets me stuff and he knows what suits me! I think I may put it too him that he has control and see what he comes up with!! We're not planning on getting married Till 2014 anyway so got a while to think about it lol
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Niccsy
Age : 36 Join date : 2010-12-07 Location : england Posts : 1901
Subject: Re: Would you let you oh plan Tue Apr 19, 2011 7:45 am
i wouldnt, i trust him with everything else but the clothing, i can see me in some ugly lacey dress, one bridesmaid in pink, one in red and the guys in green suits.....bleurgh (no offence if thats what anybody is having lol) x
olliesmammy
Age : 34 Join date : 2010-09-13 Location : Wales Posts : 4970
Subject: Re: Would you let you oh plan Tue Apr 19, 2011 10:27 am
I'd totally let him! I am like the most chiled out bride ever though, my weddings in 3 days and I really couldn't give a fling *$%£ about table arrangments Luckily I do have a very organised aunt whos making sure things come together nicely
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Subject: Re: Would you let you oh plan Tue Apr 19, 2011 4:35 pm
Olliesmammy! I can't believe your so chilled lol
table arrangments are just soooo important
hope you have a wonderful day xxx
Kell
Age : 40 Join date : 2010-08-18 Location : * Posts : 3652
About Me! My Name: Kelly Status: Mummy Number of Children: 2
Subject: Re: Would you let you oh plan Tue Apr 19, 2011 5:48 pm
Kayleigh I think that's how I'd be tbh! It's not that I don't care it's more I will be happy with anything so long as we are married!
Pen, we have talked about getting married abroad quiet alot actually, Id love it! Where did you guys do it?
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Subject: Re: Would you let you oh plan Tue Apr 19, 2011 6:00 pm
Kell we did it in northan Cyprus (the Turkish republic) we have a holiday home so the place is very special to us. We had the wedding in the ruins of an ancient monastry in a village called Bellapais. It was lovely and the whole day was very personal to us and not very traditional. There are millions of photos on my flickr page.