Hi Kenty, also posted in private but thought this link may help in the short term as a solution

http://www.netmums.com/leeds/local/view/libraries/toy-libraries/sen-toy-library

Mandy xx

http://irelandwoodchildrenscentre.com/familysupport.php
Direct link to children's centre

Mandy xx

thanks chick...i just replied in PL but as i said, we're on the other side of the cisy so i don't think they'll let us go there, we do have the william merritt centre but it takes weeks to get appointments there for the lending library and even then you have to have a referral from the OT i think so no chance of getting one before her birthday xxx