am from pakistan. hv already told tht i lost my dtr last yr novn the other one a special child too. when i meet ppl they hv healthy kids . they keep on telling/sharing abt how their kids walk talk play n they take pride in that . i feel left out . my issues r different which i cant discuss with them as they wont understand . there r no support systems in pakistan . ppl suggest me to ignore and live independently . i feel reallty depressed , isolated and bored .

my face book id is sadafaisalr@hotmail.com

I'm sorry for your loss.

Have you spoken to a doctor about your feelings?

Are you close to your family?
xx

so sorry for your loss.

There are support systems on the internet that you'd be able to find. they may be of some help to you.

hope your ok

i lack emotional support frm my immediate family i.e sisters parents and inlaws.my hubby is very supportive but ofcourse he is mostly not around as he is a soldier.
drs dont understand . they just give me sedative medicines or tell me to b patient and ignore all tht bothers . its pretty difficult to ignore so much in ur life.
dont know abt internet support systems . if u hv any link plz do share . thanks.

Sadaf, have found some sites you might find helpful xx



http://www.opentohope.com

http://www.healingheart.net/infantloss.html

http://www.athealth.com/consumer/disorders/parentalgrief.html - this one is info

xxx

Sadaf, i am sorry for your loss, I hope some of the sites that minimeg has linked will help you, no mother should have to go through what you have/are going through.

thanks i will definitely visit the links