I have not been able to come on properly for a while as OH is always disconnecting ours to fix someone elses for work

Don't feel bad Kat, it was just an example of how things have changed around here.

There use to be excitement around new babies but not so much anymore.
The scan went really well tho! She was bouncing around like a nut case, had the hiccups as well! Oh's mum came and loved every minute! She looks lovely and healthy and that's what counts! Thanks for asking tho

So good to hear milo is well! Oh dear at Noah, I hope he starts sleeping again soon, growth spurt maybe?

Charlie hasn't really paid much attention, he knows baby Lily is in there but hasn't got a clue what that means! He loves babies so I'm sure it'll all be ok, fingers crossed anyway lol!
Tommy is very excited to be having a sister tho which is quite sweet! He's not gonna know what hit him when she arrives!

Ah honey i know what you mean about it being quiet, it certainly has changed even in the month i have been away. Tbh though i never posted enough to get any real connection to anyone but us September mummies, and i think we have kept in good contact. I love hearing from you all x x x

I agree with what is being said, it is a shame as to how quiet it is on here at the moment and I just hope everyone comes back soon. I'm not on FB and tbh I don't intend on joining it so I just hope everyone starts posting here again soon.

I think the pg mommies post more and I tend to check in there first.

Kell I totally respect your decision not to have fb account and if I honest I come on here to catch up with you.

I will try to post on here more, xx

I think the FB is being used a bit too much. I know it's faster paced and that is why I like it on there as if I need an answer and quick. Know I'll get it there.

But going to stop the other stuff that's not urgent and post here instead

i am always around, but theres never any posts to reply to x

I do have FB but i am hardly ever on there if i do i only ever browse or make a quick comment on someones post. I do post on here more, i do also post on AB too due to me TTC i feel there are more women ttc and there are more posts. I still love the forums, i am lucky that i can access the internet at work so do tend to post everyday. For the last couple of weeks there hasnt been many post on here to post too.

Char

Mari I'm not sure what you've seen on facebook that makes you disgusted with some of us - think that's a bit harsh to be honest.

Anyway Kell your not allowed to talk about your lovely baby girl because I'm "well jel"

only joking i'd be talking about her non stop if I were you

I come on here everyday it's so quiet i end up playing shit games on FB ( when Lilly is in nursery mind)

How did your scan go? I can't wait for my 12 week scan on friday x

Awww hun, im sorry we havent been around so much. I do tend to go on my phone a little bit more as im normally on it when im feeding Holly and its easier with one hand to flick through fb.

Anyway... are you calling her Lily? LOVE that name xx

Just wana say kell that that is the exact reason me and Ben deleted it a year ago! It causes way to much trouble and same as you and Jody, our relationship has never been better!! I've noticed its quiet on here but I've only been on the past 8momths so I didn't know what it was like before if U get me! Xx

I said this a while ago and Facebook was made emergencies only but over Christmas it got used more and everyone wanted Banda chat.

My problem is Facebook is usually logged in so i look at that first but there are so many posts I don't really get time to look on here after. I'm also always logging myself out and can never remember my password which doesn't help!

I think it's a shame as Lisa has put so much effort into it.

I completely agree with you. I am on Banda chat and do post there but the other day I did get angry at myself as i realised it was so long since i posted here. I try to come on most days but was finding i had no reason to post as there wasn't many new posts and it wasn't things I could reply too. I am trying though. Hopefully others do too and we can pick it up here.

Btw I'm not blaming anyone, i just think FB can be easier as its slightly easier access, so it was a natural progression thing that happened and none of us Facebookers planned for the forum to suffer because we were using fb.

Mari - I don't know what happened to make you leave Banda or Fb and i don't know what you're referring too.. what happened with you or recent goings on but I think you were a little harsh. I hope you and Elijah are doing well and hope maybe one day you come back.

i agree hun, i come on every day bet there is never any new posts, its such a shame x

I agree and im annoyed with myself for not getting on here more. Tbh when i used to come on banda me and gav used to argue quite alot as he felt i was spending all my speare time on the lap top rather tha with him. with FB im always on it so doesnt really take up any of my time iykwim?
kell im sorry that u felt you couldnt mention your scan. thats so sad. i will deffo try and make more of an effort to log on. x

I'm normally logged on on fb. For some reason it's a nightmare replying from the iPad on banda as often I'll type something then it'll go all funny. Pah! Will make more of an effort to get on x

i've not been on in a while, i've now left the FB Banda because personally there was far too much drama and bitching going on, its a shame because I love sharing about ava and asking advice but not many people seem interested anymore.

Pinky it's really lovely to hear from you!
See not being on fb does leave me some what in the dark about all the drama which is definatly not a bad thing, I like my non fb bubble for that lol!
I'm sorry you've not had any helpful info I hope it doesn't stop you from asking here?

I didn't realise that's why you left Pinky. I still love looking at her pics anyway.

I guess if more of us start posting here and asking questions again then more people will reply, etc

Ty for the kick up the arse Kel will try harder. I guess FB i can float in when ive got 2 mins whereas i feel i have to devote time to reading on here but will make more effort