Don't get me wrong, I would love to come, but feel totally shity reading this thread I don't have the ££'s to spare. Like Suzie I have never left my LO for more than a few hours never mind a whole night and have never left my district on my own..never mind Yorkshire lol

Its not that I don't 'want' to come, and can appreciate the effort everyone else is going too.
xx

SuziandGracie wrote:

i talk bollocks all the time no one would know the difference

Same here in fact bollocks is a word I say quite a lot too.

Terri - and your point is? I refer you to Gemz post about puking and getting arrested.

Alright Kelly you have a point (are you saying your OH is more important than your pandas ) or can't he turn 30 another night

Zee - money is one thing and it is a big thing leaving your LO for the first time but you will have to do it one day (probably when you are in hossie having the next one in your case )

Haha thats true
I will think about it, is anyone travelling from down south (Brighton) ?
I would love to meet you all but sometimes i feel a bit of a loner, most of you seem to have a best friend on here and i dont But then maybe thats coz i havnt been to a meet lol!

GillandWil wrote:

Zee it is a big thing leaving your LO for the first time but you will have to do it one day (probably when you are in hossie having the next one in your case )

Hmm! not if I can help it

Anyhoo, I could probably get round leaving him - but the money is the biggest factor as I explained to Helz in her thread.

i dont have a bessy on here either terri...we can be loners together x

Im abit worried that il be on my jub as i havent met anyone other than mandy whos going but i know if i dont go il regret it x

Ive never left callum for more than an a few hrs before let alone overnight but oh thinks he will be able to cope i think it will do all 3 of us good xx

Terri wrote:

Haha thats true
I will think about it, is anyone travelling from down south (Brighton) ?
I would love to meet you all but sometimes i feel a bit of a loner, most of you seem to have a best friend on here and i dont But then maybe thats coz i havnt been to a meet lol!

I dont have a best friend hun, im just everyones mate, and I would absolutely love to meet you xxx!!!!!

terri is there no one local to you you can meet up with im meeting up with Kelly in a few weeks and i cant wait I just hope Rowan and Gracie hit it off.

Im actually not nervous meeting her as i have been talking to her (as i have most of you) for 3 years come May x

Do you wanna be my best friend terri. Lol I got no mates me xx

CarlaAndCallum wrote:

Im abit worried that il be on my jub as i havent met anyone other than mandy whos going but i know if i dont go il regret it x

Ive never left callum for more than an a few hrs before let alone overnight but oh thinks he will be able to cope i think it will do all 3 of us good xx

id love you to come, i've only left ava when im at work but i know she'll be fine x

Aw thanks girls Well i will defo think about it and talk to Luke! I can make some 'bessies' then
Suzie where are you meeting Kelly?
Ill have a look through the list and see if i theres anyone near me that could travel up.

Noone will be left on their own, I will make sure of it (that's me stroking the lonely people)

I hope everyone comes!!!!!!

i know its not possible for some so dont want to make anyone feel bad, i was going/wasnt going but i know i would feel like i missed out if i didnt so my 9 hours holiday pay that i am due is paying for my night out.

i STILL have no stairs carpet tho

Gill

I am deffo points 1 and 2 on the list and the scared of flying bit too. I'm also worried that I might not be able to make the nite out and jen's trip in the summer too financially. We are trying to get ourselves out of as much debt as we can this year and think I am maybe being a bit lavish as we have a two night dublin stay coming up soon lol.

I really want to meet all you guys and know it will do my confidence the world of good as you guys have been my rock, but am just scared I will let myself and you guys down. My lack of self confidence makes me really wary of big crowds, I am not good in clubs and am worried I will freak out and make an arse of myself if that makes sense.

Am going to talk to oh tomorrow and see how feasible all our trips are, I know life is too short now though so I really want to do it. Lol sorry for rambling

Terri I am meeting them at a lovely park near me (in case i dont have the car i can still walk) It has a park fenced off for the LO's and a really nice fishing pond where the kiddies can see the ducks and a massive field for them to run in.

In the summer we have picknicks there too its lovely xx

piglet wrote:

Gill

I am deffo points 1 and 2 on the list and the scared of flying bit too. I'm also worried that I might not be able to make the nite out and jen's trip in the summer too financially. We are trying to get ourselves out of as much debt as we can this year and think I am maybe being a bit lavish as we have a two night dublin stay coming up soon lol.

I really want to meet all you guys and know it will do my confidence the world of good as you guys have been my rock, but am just scared I will let myself and you guys down. My lack of self confidence makes me really wary of big crowds, I am not good in clubs and am worried I will freak out and make an arse of myself if that makes sense.

Am going to talk to oh tomorrow and see how feasible all our trips are, I know life is too short now though so I really want to do it. Lol sorry for rambling

You sound so much like me!!! I hate big crowds and I tend to eye everyone up just to make sure noone next to me is dodgy Just remember this so that if you feel anxious, just come to me and tell me and I'll look after you xxx

unless i can leave my boobs at home somehow i wont be coming! thats my excuse (oh and i dont drink so....nights out are a bit )

im much the same diane...you will be fine hun, trust me you will never meet such lovley people in your life xx

mariheartselijah wrote:

unless i can leave my boobs at home somehow i wont be coming! thats my excuse (oh and i dont drink so....nights out are a bit )

cow pump hun start now and freeze it and there will be plenty for your absence.

don't worry about the drinking nights out are more fun sober if you ask me

i am a lil nervous but tbh i am a loud bubbly person i will talk to anyone i have met laura and thats it and she is lovely.

i wouldn't say i am shy i am very out there and dont give 2 shits.

but be worn i do talk a lil fast and have a lisp but thats cause my op. xx

Gill

I agree with the night's out being as much fun sober, am hoping I may be not drinking myself come may(fingers crossed)

Lita/Gemz

Thank you guys I know I am not the only one with anxiety issues and know I will be fine when I meet you all its just thinking about it that scares me lol

Ohh yeah

Another worry I have is my accent and the fact you all might need subtitles. I don't really have too broad a accent like a Belfast/Derry accent but am just concerned no one will understand me.

i apparently snore badly and fart in my sleep so noone would want to share with me


as much as i so desperately want to meet you ladies so so much i am bridesmaid on that day and i think the bride would not be too happy if i blew her off x

Everyone will have an accent hun so I wouldn't worry

all those with anxiety issues etc we will have a therapist with us for the evening so you will be fine.

LOL on the accents Piglet. It will be like the United Nations with everyone having to have translations played into their ears because everyone has different accents.